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Realistic, Relatable and Remarkable

What makes a book amazing? Is it the prose? The story? The unexpected twists and turns?

Some would say all three, but in a romance — at least in my opinion — it's the characters. Romance readers want swoon-worthy love interests and relatable main characters. Plots can be thin and even cliché, but if the characters sparkle, then readers will turn the pages.

In this chapter, I'm going to answer an important question one of my readers had in an earlier installment:

How can I make characters more realistic and relatable?

This is probably one of the harder things to do in fiction. Crafting a character that feels real is difficult. We've all read books that have interesting plots and excellent prose but for some reason, the story feels flat. Usually this is because the characters aren't relatable or realistic — they're cardboard cutouts, interchangeable, boring.

Let me walk you through my process of creating characters. I'm a pretty literal person, so I rely on some very concrete methods to create characters. Other authors wing it and allow the character to reveal themselves as they write.

(I need to stress that neither approach is wrong. You do you).

When writing a romance, I create the hero first. (I'm going to use the terms hero and herone from here on out for sake of ease, because I write straight, cis characters. Feel free to insert your own characters and pairings).

Creating the hero is the most fun because this involves going to Instagram and looking at photos of Michele Morrone. Kidding! Sort of.

Seriously, I do tend to rely on visual cues when creating the main male character. My books are heavy on sex and sensuality, and the hero's stunning good looks factor into how the heroine reacts to him. So I like to have an image in my mind when I begin. From there I decide on a name, age and a profession.

Then I begin thinking about the heroine. How old is she? What year was she born? Those things influence her name (I discuss this more in detail in an earlier chapter). Sometimes I look for photos of women to help with this, but often not. I usually want the heroine to be a little more nebulous and generic physically, because of a couple of reasons:

1. I want the reader to be able to imagine herself as the heroine

2. I want the hero to be attracted to her for more than the physical, but I also want their interactions realistic. So when he first sees her and lusts after her, he's thinking purely along the lines of carnal needs. But soon after, she's something MORE than just a sexy person. She's hilarious, smart, talented, competent, SOMETHING other than just a piece of ass.

Anyway. Once I have an idea of their names, professions, ages and general physical characteristics, I begin thinking about conflict. This is where things get exciting, and where the real plotting begins.

What are the character's motivations? What are the power differences between the two people? Why should they not be together? The more detailed you can be in answering these questions, the more realistic your characters will be.

Sometimes it helps to think of a VERY obvious conflict, and insert your characters into a scenario. In many cases, the more simple the conflict and motivations, the better. Let's look at my book TELL ME A STORY as an example. This is told only in the heroine's point of view, so I had to make her character more layered and realistic because we are in her head all the time.

The heroine, Emma, is a bookstore owner. She's kind of scraping by, happy with her life but also worried because her bookstore's building is being sold. She's also kind of lonely and she goes to a literary event and meets a hot guy. They have an instant connection, and he pursues her.

This is not the end, of course. Think of Emma like an onion (lol) and we are unpeeling her layers. As it turns out, Emma grew up poor. The new man, Caleb, is super wealthy. She's a vegetarian, he's a meat eater. She lives in an old bungalow, he lives in a new high rise. She's a small business owner who had no help from anyone, he took over his family's construction and property development company.

Are you starting to see the layers? There are more. I wanted Emma to feel real, so I added several details to her character and life. She has a cat named Higgins. A best friend who is a lesbian. She knits sweaters for her best friend's pitbull. She loves oatmeal cookies, vintage clothing, and writing erotica. She refuses to listen to advice and doesn't want to rely on a man for anything but sexual pleasure.

Now, TELL ME A STORY was initially a 20,000 word novella, and the three previous paragraphs were all things I thought of before I started writing that novella. As the serial expanded, so did my details of Emma.

Most importantly in that novella, Emma's motivation was NOT to find love or a man. It was to save her bookstore from closing. Her motivation dovetailed with the novella's main conflict: that Caleb the sexy developer man was buying the bookstore building and wanted to turn it into condos.

I personally think it's super important to give your main character a motivation other than love. This helps your character be realistic and well-rounded.

Here are some other ways to make your character more realistic:

- I know some authors use astrological charts, tarot cards or personality tests as guides for character traits. This is an interesting way of sparking ideas and I keep meaning to do this with my next book!

- Make sure your character has a backstory — but don't put all that backstory on the page. It's helpful for YOU to know your character's early struggles, triumphs and experiences. Most of the time, you can leave that out of the actual book, however, because a lot of backstory is boring and will make the reader fall asleep. Or, save those details for bonus chapters or a special treat for your readers.

- Think about people you know in real life. REALLY think about them. What are the traits you love? What are the traits that annoy you? Even in people you adore, they have weird habits and occasionally frustrating traits. Make a list of all the traits of someone you know well, and incorporate those into a character (be cautious about modeling a character exactly after a real person, but pick and choose dominant traits). Perhaps they have a quick temper, but are incredibly kind to children and animals. Or they like to solve everyone's problems, but they also talk so fast that no one can understand them. Everyone is unique, and the more unique the traits, the more people will love your character.

- People have quirks, idiosyncrasies and mannerisms. No one is all good, or all bad. Make the good characters sympathetic at times, or at least allow them a pleasant trait or two.

A word about female heroines. We often want to create perfect female characters, women and girls who are beautiful but don't know it, who are smart but don't brag about their accomplishments, who are kickass and kind, flawless in every way.

Don't.

No one is perfect. Give your heroine flaws. It's okay for female characters — and actual human females — to be difficult, ambitious, messy. A woman doesn't need to be perfect to find love.

Feel free to discuss or ask questions in the comments!

Until next week, I'll be drinking coffee and talking about plots with the local roosters.

xoxo 

Tamara