Hey guys. I’m just checking in to say a few things. I’m sorry for disappearing like I have. Life has always been rough, but somehow it got a bit rougher, and I haven’t been able to do much. I’m not bearing good news today, so you could say it found a way to get even worse.
I’m here to vent right now, so you might waste your time reading on.
I’m young. Only 18 years old, I would be turning 19 in less than a month. I don’t remember much of my early life. Some vague memories come to mind, but nothing substantial. I do remember not ever having a single home.
We would move constantly. I’ve switched schools half a dozen times through elementary alone.
I’ve always been a bright kid even if a little lonely. I was great at math, and reading was my favorite pastime.
My parents weren’t great, but I loved them; especially my mother. I was a mama’s boy.
That didn’t last forever. When I was twelve going thirteen, my mother and father split. Father was cheating, and mother was done with it.
I came with my mother and brother to our current state further north. It was rough at first, but I got to meet family that I hadn’t remembered ever meeting before.
My brother was a hellhound. He was prone to tantrums. He would throw things across the room, scream up and down the walls, and if you were to close, or he wanted to, he would try to beat your face in.
People tell me nowadays that it wasn’t my responsibility, but I pretty much had to parent him myself. My mother didn’t discipline him at all, and my only other alternative was to live with his threat of violence.
That was hell, but I wrestled him under at least loose control. He’s still prone to screaming tantrums, but after about four/five years, he lost his edge for violence. I think I did alright.
My mother was worse. While not violent, she was a huge druggy. She’d steal anyone’s pills she could get a hold of, and she’d knock herself out for days at a time. I tried working with her.