fictionalhoes

Guys, help me out here. 
          	
          	My best friend and I had planned our night out for my birthday for about 3-4 weeks, we planned the date of it a day before specifically because she needed another day to recover before travelling. As far as I knew we were both really excited to go, we planned outfits, I bought both our tickets and we talked about it a bunch.
          	
          	We met up today morning to get our nails done and have breakfast, then we each went home to do what we needed to do and nap and things like that- we agreed on meeting at 8 and catching the same bus at 7:40pm, it was 7:10, I was already dressed and my makeup was half done and she messaged me to cancel, saying how she was tired and had to do things to prepare for her trip (bare in mind her trip is in two days).
          	
          	I got really angry and sad and I left her on read, but do you guys think that I overreacted?

purpleturtles2005

@fictionalhoes honestly no I don’t think you did you planned this trip for about basically month in my opinion she could have at least gave you some notice for cancelling on you, plus it probably took some time planning this outing plus it was your birthday no best friend she cancel something which is for their birthday and honestly she has days to prepare for her trip and I find “tired” as an excuse to saying she doesn’t want to go so no you did not overreact I would’ve reacted the same if my best friend did the same
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fictionalhoes

Guys, help me out here. 
          
          My best friend and I had planned our night out for my birthday for about 3-4 weeks, we planned the date of it a day before specifically because she needed another day to recover before travelling. As far as I knew we were both really excited to go, we planned outfits, I bought both our tickets and we talked about it a bunch.
          
          We met up today morning to get our nails done and have breakfast, then we each went home to do what we needed to do and nap and things like that- we agreed on meeting at 8 and catching the same bus at 7:40pm, it was 7:10, I was already dressed and my makeup was half done and she messaged me to cancel, saying how she was tired and had to do things to prepare for her trip (bare in mind her trip is in two days).
          
          I got really angry and sad and I left her on read, but do you guys think that I overreacted?

purpleturtles2005

@fictionalhoes honestly no I don’t think you did you planned this trip for about basically month in my opinion she could have at least gave you some notice for cancelling on you, plus it probably took some time planning this outing plus it was your birthday no best friend she cancel something which is for their birthday and honestly she has days to prepare for her trip and I find “tired” as an excuse to saying she doesn’t want to go so no you did not overreact I would’ve reacted the same if my best friend did the same
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