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synqras

i was like that a few years back, funny enough bc it’s not even that long ago (approximately 2 years.) it was actually fairly recent, that i was like that as well and that was probably also one of the worst time of my life where i felt like nobody understood lol. even i felt like my dad barely understood me when he was the only one who actually did, safe to say he was one of the majorities why i’m like the way i am today, growth happened and it wouldn’t have happened without him and his treasured pieces of advice, that i tried to push away at first because i hated change (still do if it’s for a stupid reason.) and i was afraid of what people think would think of me. but i eventually started working on myself, especially during the quarantine and when i started on boarding school, and now today i feel fairly.. idk, more content with myself, as content as you can be even with the amount of stress you have to carry 24/7. but i feel like me also growing was the responsibility i already had and took, most my life. so honestly my advice would be: give it time. one day, you’ll be able to spend your mind carefree and you will eventually see the things that’s the best for yourself. it might not be now, nor tomorrow nor in a week or a month, there is no rush, once you see your worth and your tendency to look after yourself, you will do it without thinking. i’ve also learned, if people also only come to you for their problems.. you will also start to realize that they are only shitty people who will be at yours at their most vulnerable but not waste any breath when it comes to you. some people are like that unfortunately, they are that and there and that’s not your fault.