lupinskisses

babes i think i might be asexual but like romantically a lesbian ?? idk #scared help pls

lupinskisses

babes i think i might be asexual but like romantically a lesbian ?? idk #scared help pls

Caramelmacchiato888

@lupinskisses well , ignoring it isn't the best it will only come crashing down afterwards just try to think of it calmly 
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lupinskisses

@Caramelmacchiato888 asexuality is a spectrum- u can be asexual and romantically a lesbian, or be a lesbian but aromantic. i think i might be aroace and now i'm just unsure about my lesbian identity so yeah idk im in a tough spot rn but just try not to think abt it too much
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Caramelmacchiato888

@lupinskisses well , idk anything abt these stuff but if you think that you're asexual then how are you a lesbian ? I'm sorry i just don't understand these things
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lupinskisses

im adopting a kitten on thursday ???

Caramelmacchiato888

@lupinskisses i'm finishing my exams on Thursday
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lupinskisses

also happy pride month babes!! ️‍️‍

lemon_36

@lupinskisses sorry for my late reply my WiFi is atrocious but awwwww and np! And good luck for exams :)
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lupinskisses

@lemon_36 good luck!! mine start in 3 weeks i think :O and thank u for asking, im getting a kitten on thursday so doing great rn!!
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lemon_36

@lupinskisses omg ikr and good! Exams are starting but fine :) wbu?
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lupinskisses

besties im afraid to say this but ao3 stories are so good. if anyone has read atyd or DOT on there pls lmk so we can gossip about it

lupinskisses

@lemon_36 oh ok thats cool !! if u want the best wolfstar fic ever, its called all the young dudes by mskingbean89 on ao3.. it will literally break ur heart but its so well written and theres like a whole fandom for it on tiktok lmao but yes really pls give it a chance i swear you'll be hooked after like the first chapter already
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lemon_36

@lupinskisses no sorry I've only read one fic on there! (I still need to get into it and the one I've read isn't to do w Harry Potter lol)
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lupinskisses

babes i think i might be a lesbian

iwannabeinmydrlol

@lupinskisses yayyyy congrats! *blushes profusely* I’m really bad at putting thoughts to words but this really made my day! thank you so much for being such an amazing human! talk to you soon!
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lupinskisses

@iwannabeinmydrlol thank you for the support!! i talked to someone tonight and they were really supportive and sweet and yeah im pretty sure like 99.9% that im a lesbian, it feels pretty freeing to be honest. im trying not to find a permanent label too much either but remember you can always experiment and you should do whatever makes you comfortable! thanks for being so nice and i wish you the best, take it easy and i hope we'll talk soon :) you can always private text me on here too, im here for you <3
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iwannabeinmydrlol

@lupinskisses I’m so happy for you! I literally feel the same thing about men but it’s not like I’ve ever held hands with anyone romantically so I’ll just wait till then to readdress it. I’m gonna come back to this when I shift to see what happens there, this convo was really helpful!!
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