It has been very ideal in almost every country that boys do the first move in expressing their feelings. Girls do not initiate motivations, instead, wait for someone to show it to them. That is the ideal but is it fair? Should girls remain reserved or evolve and be expressive?
Reserved girls hold a principle pertaining to conservatism. Initiating a move seems to be a very big deal to them and somewhat unpleasant. They tend to wait for their prospect to confess first because of the principle they are clinging into. They are more concern with how will the society interpret their actions.
Expressive girls are completely the other way around. They do not mind saying what they truly feel to someone they like. They do not hold on to a principle reserved girls have. They enjoy their freedom through their expressiveness. For them, their feelings matter more than what the society dictates girls should be.
It matters not who initiated the move. Being an initiator does not demean a girl. Being reserved may be the society's ideal but that does not mean we should let it manipulate us.
