the signs of your life changing: 1. your head and heart may start to disagree 2. every normal thing you took for granted is now something you have to fight for 3. you and your best friend get kidnapped. it's pretty life-changing. i know gia knows she shouldn't take anything for granted. but she did. nothing will ever be the same. zach knows that he shouldn't expect life to be fair. but he did. and it's not. well not anymore.