(note that i don't know everything about divergent and i have only read the book) you where a girl born into Amity, and you loved it. you loved nature, harvesting and tending to plants/crop, everyone and everything about it you loved. but you always felt out of place. while everyone was super sweet and charming you tended to get a little bit mean time to time and just always felt out of place. when you where little you always admired the dauntless, there crazy stunts, like jumping into trains, or climbing buildings you loved everything about it.