Being An Aquarius

Aquarius Woman

Love
When an Aquarius woman falls in love, she will follow her feelings for as long as she is unrestricted and free to be herself. The unconscious fear of losing her personality to other people often makes her vulnerable to any sort of expectations and tries to turn her into something she is not. Still, in almost every Aquarius woman's life comes a time to "grow up" and realize that a certain amount of love should be enough for her to have a family, raise children and take care of her husband. This is probably the hardest thing for her to do, and a decision like this should be respected and understood as the ultimate act of love, even when it seems entirely rational.

Sexuality
She needs a partner who is interesting enough and doesn't care much about the taboos of modern society. If she wants to show her sexuality in a certain way, she will probably do that in spite of everyone's opinion and not at all subtly. Her rational mind will in most cases keep her from
making scenes, but she is very interested in all sorts of sexual experiments and this includes outdoor sex and sometimes the display of intimacy in the strangest places you can imagine. She shouldn't be with a narrow minded man or anyone who perceives her as unladylike.

Relationship
She is exciting, unpredictable, and not someone to choose to be with, if you are searching for a stable, secure relationship without waves and emotional challenges. She doesn't like to be tied down, although she will do anything for the right partner, and unless she feels her biological clock ticking, she will not give in to the formal expectations of a relationship. The most important thing one should keep in mind when starting a relationship with this woman, is that she can be swept off her feet only by respect and a surprise or two in return.

Trust
This is a question that has two extreme answers. If a relationship makes her feel secure enough to open up and dip into her emotional pool, she will most certainly be someone you can trust, without a doubt. However, as soon as her personality is
threatened in any way, she will either break up, or not only lie, but also be fully aware of it, they take responsibility and still feel very good about it.

Dating
The sign of Aquarius represents all extreme activities from parachute and bungee jumping, to a sexual experience in public. Her need to break the rules can sometimes be uncontrollable, not because she is "out of control" but because she doesn't want to be in it. If her upbringing was tender enough and her needs met when she was a child, her rebellious nature won't be that difficult to deal with, but the fact is, her inner opposition will push her in the direction of the most unusual activities you can think of. This is why she doesn't want to go on three same dates in a row, especially not to a romantic family place where she will eat spaghetti. Instead, she wants spicy food, something on foot, she wants to go to a club, to dance, to live, she want dates that surprises her and last through the night. She needs new experiences every time, changes, excitement, and she will never settle for less, nor should she.

Understanding
The sign of Aquarius represents an opposition and it is not easy for this woman to settle the conflict she carries within, that always tells her respect needs to be earned. She might never realize that respect is her given right and that she doesn't need to fight for it all the time. Her biggest challenge is in finding inner, emotional peace, and when she gets hurt too many times, she easily closes her heart and moves on with her life from a strictly rational point.

Likes and Dislikes
The beauty of being in a company of an Aquarius woman is in her unpredictable, exciting nature, her humane outlook on the world and her understanding for things other people would run from. A not
so great side of dating her is in her unpredictable and not so reliable side, not only because she might be late every time you are supposed to meet, but because it is sometimes impossible to know how she will react to anything other people do.

Gift
This should be easy—buy her something you wouldn't buy for any other woman. It is important to understand that under her detached exterior hides a real woman that likes to be surprised by something romantic and beautiful. This doesn't mean that she will be crazy about a dozen red roses or a candlelight dinner, and although she might be satisfied enough by something similar, it is best to go with presents that are a little more unusual. If you want to pick out a gift she will use, look for technical things she might need, in a purple or a silver tone. Pick out a good astrology reading or prepare some fireworks as an anniversary surprise. You might discover that it is truly easy to give her something she will treasure, if only you rely on your creativity and your inner
feeling of excitement.

~ ~ ~ The Aquarius woman has a resistance to change, is communicative and wants to
make the world a better place to live in. As the Aquarius is a fixed, air sign, the Aquarius woman is logical and thinks with her mind rather than the heart. She is
also very original, honest and intelligent and its almost impossible to predict her
actions or words.

Positive traits of the Aquarius woman:
The Aquarius woman is inventive with her ideas, progressive, and an intellectual
person. She cares for others and loves freedom.

In Friendship:
She makes many friends in her life, but belongs to none. Her friends look up to
her as she is easygoing and compassionate. All in all, she is a good friend.

In Work:
The Aquarius woman wants freedom in her professional life as well. Her want of
freedom makes her do new things and experiment in her work. She would do well
in fields of science, technology or humanities.

Negative traits of the Aquarius woman:
She simply cannot be tied down to do something that others want her to do. She
is also detached and unemotional.

In Friendship:
She is a social butterfly, but isn't emotionally attached to her friends. This can bring about inconsistencies in the friendship. Others may think of her as their
friend, but she has many friends and doesn't rely on them.

In Love:
She is detached from a relationship. This doesn't mean she doesn't love her partner, but she simply isn't the type to send flowery messages or express her feelings well. This will send a wrong message across to her partner who may feel she is not interested in the relationship.

In Work:
Since she is unpredictable, no one knows what her further plans are. This makes
working with her a tough task. Also, she will do what she pleases and will hardly
ever change. She will listen to others opinions but will not accept them. lf the
work is not challenging enough for her, she will immediately leave it.