idk. recently i got out of an extremely bad relationship. i didnt realize how bad it was until a few hours ago. ex had guilt tripped me multiple times, then when i confronted them about it they said i could've just told them no. the next time, i say no. they cry, i feel bad, blah blah blah. it doesnt help. i'm barely a teenager, and this full grown man was doing shit like this. i was being groomed. it was partially my fault, and i am aware of that, but they shouldn't have let the relationship between us even start. it was overall really unhealthy, and i think i might've brushed it off, but cant remember. i relied heavily on them. in retrospect, to the point of obsession. my happiness was literally determined by whether or not they were happy. anyway. point is, dont start relationships with walking red flags.
