I've brought up the point that, we aren't fighting, we're just arguing or disagreeing. But if you send a text or say something that you know will hurt them...your fighting.
They hurt like hell, and they always leave you regretting something said or done.
No one looks forward to a fight.
As much as I hate fighting, sometimes it's unavoidable. It's the only way you can let it all out. The worst part is, when you let it all out, your partner is stuck in the crosshairs of your fire.
I know this much...if you don't try to take everything they throw at you, you don't love them as much as you think. It can be a lot sometimes, but if you love them, you'll try your best to take every blow they give you and remember they just need to let it out.
Fighting can be terrible, but the best couples know how to apologize and forgive. That's what can make or break the relationship...deciding to give another chance after being hurt by their words or actions.
I hope this helps someone.
