ꕤ 𝚂𝚝𝚛𝚘𝚗𝚐 𝚐𝚒𝚛𝚕 𝚚𝚞𝚘𝚝𝚎𝚜 ꕤ *Completed*

❤️Happy Valentines Day!❤️

Hello all of you beautiful souls!
It's been far too long since I've posted on this account, but I've definitely been thinking about it:)

I posted this last Valentine's Day on my account, and I figured I'd share it with all of you wonderful people this year!

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2/14/20

•Always remember your worth. You are a beautiful and wonderful creation.•

Are you single this Valentine's Day?
If so, that's totally okay!

I know a lot of girls are sad if they don't have a valentine, but you don't need to be.

Just because your single, that doesn't mean you aren't loved. Because I know for a fact, that YOU ARE LOVED! I Love You, and more importantly, GOD LOVES YOU!!

I HAVE NO DOUBT, GOD LOVES YOU❤️❤️❤️

Embrace being single, enjoy it, have fun, make memories, and just be happy! You won't always be single, so enjoy it while you are and then when you have someone who truly loves you for you, enjoy that!

Don't waste your days wishing you had someone to buy you flowers and chocolates, instead enjoy those days alone and/or with friends!

I'm not saying don't have a boyfriend ever, and I know it's human to want one, but don't let that want, take over your joy... it will come someday, so until then enjoy today and all that you have right now.

I'll be nineteen in less than a week, and I've never dated a boy a day of my life. I've liked plenty of boys, but I've realized that waiting for them to like me back, can make me sad, and sometimes even causes me to think that I'm not good enough.
But YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH!
Someday the right person will come along, and they will love you not just for your beauty and outward appearance, but for every flaw too. They'll love you for a lifetime instead of a few weeks, months or years. Don't waste your time on someone that doesn't love you for who you are, don't spend your days wishing you had the perfect boyfriend, instead enjoy being single and wait for the right guy to come into your life to love you, your entire life.
It seems that a lot of people in this world don't believe that someone could love forever, I think that some people even believe that love only lasts a few years and then it's gone, but that's not love. Love is forever lasting, not just until their tired of you and ready to find someone else.
True love does exist, it's rare now-a-days but it still does exist, it may not come easy, but I believe it's worth it.
Anyone who wants to argue with me that love doesn't last forever, well I'm sorry but your wrong. It does, my grandparents have been married for over 50 years, and they still love each other. My parents have been married for 30 years and they still love each other. Real love still does exist, it takes work, and it definitely takes God, but it exists. I see it daily in my parents. I believe though, that if they didn't love God, they wouldn't still love each other. God is very, very important in a relationship.

I'm single, but happy! I don't want to someday meet the person I'm going to live the rest of my life with and they say, "I've had about 6 girlfriends before you." That would make me feel very unsure about how long our relationship would last. I would constantly be wondering when I was gonna become his seventh girlfriend that he's "had". And I don't ever want to someday tell the person I love, that I've had multiple boyfriends before them. Honestly I think that would be embarrassing.
Save your heart for the one who you will spend the rest of your life with! Not the one you'll spend the rest of high school with.

So try and live your life to the fullest, being happy even if you are single. And wait for the right person to come, and love you for who you are.

Part of me feels like anyone who reads this is gonna say, "Why do you think you know so much about love if you've been single your entire life?"

Well I'm not saying I'm right in everything I say, but I've seen love in many people around me. I've been told about what true love is, and in God's word he gives us a definition of what "Love" is.

So if you ever wonder if someone truly loves you, change the "it" to their name,
"______ is patient" "______ is kind" And so on, and if you can say that without disagreeing, than that is true love.
Sometimes, Because we are human, no matter how hard we try, we become impatient or any other one of those things, but if someone truly loves you, they will show you that they try hard to be all of that.

I think God is the only one who you can say all those things about, without a doubt.

I now feel like I'm being judged because I'm referring to God a lot, but I am a Christian, and I'm not ashamed to admit it.
If your offended by what I say, I'm sorry... and you don't have to read this. This is what I believe and how I feel.

I wrote this all out because I want you to know, that YOU ARE LOVED, even if your single.
So don't feel down or bad about yourself, know your worth, and own it!

Life isn't all about being in a relationship, it's about living each moment to its fullest no matter what your situation in life is.

So with all that being said, I want to challenge you to...

If this was helpful in anyway, or maybe made you happy, please let me know in the comments. It would mean a lot!
Also if you disagree with anything I said, comment that too. I love hearing different peoples opinions and beliefs.

If you think that this will be at all helpful or maybe make someone less gloomy because they are single, please send it to them:)

Also, I love this song I put at the top! So give it a listen:) It goes well with this topic!

Thanks for reading!!! And have a most splendid day:)

Much love to you all this Valentines Day,
Rissa💕

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