I believed in the sweet man I knew would come to sweep me off my feet; he wouldn't care about my lack of romance experience or my inability to be in a place full of people for a long time without being drained. My soul mate would come and not mind about my clumsy tendencies or my terrible driving. I thought I wanted someone who wouldn't see my flaws. That was not the case. When he came around he saw my flaws. He learned to love them, too.