-wrongcrowd
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FUCK GEORGENOTFOUND
georgenotfound, george davidson. whatever tf you wanna be called. i hope you rot.
you sat on stream, not even a live one, but a prerecorded one, and nitpicked every detail that did not seem right to you and proceeded to invalidate caiti’s feelings. for that alone, you are a disgrace and you are a coward. her small inconsistencies do not take away from the clear power imbalance and your incapability of asking for consent.
body language is not consent. her coming back to you is not consent. her appearing comfortable is not consent. and cuddling is not consent either. you assumed her age, you did not ask or search for it, most likely chose to ignore it in her instagram bio. you did not want to know her age. and that’s not okay. as a male streamer, with a large young female audience. do better.
you cuddled with her on the couch, with your hand on her waist, OVER her clothes. you said that yourself. cuddling is a form of affection that can be shown between friends, family and loved ones. how is that consent for your hands to move further? do you cuddle with your friends and proceed to touch them under their clothes without asking first? i’d like to think you wouldn’t. but that is what you did to caiti.
your hands inched further to places they should not have explored without asking her first. i’m sure that a simple, “is this okay?” when your hand slowly moved would have sufficed. but you could not even do that either, and for that, you are a scumbag.
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SerendipitySimp
@-wrongcrowd | the way he spoke about her and her friends through that entire thing was disgusting. to constantly blame how she felt was sickening and to turn how she felt on how her friends felt about him ans dream was gross. i don't even know what to think other than this is just disgusting.
-wrongcrowd
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caiti’s feelings have been invalidated by you. in the moment, your friendship was playful and ‘banterous’ as you stated. maybe she did not show signs of being uncomfortable, but you are not caiti. you cannot tell her or anyone else how she felt in that moment. only she can. she is allowed to look back at this interaction with you, and realise that what you did was wrong. BECAUSE IT IS. you did not ask for consent. she had the help of her friends to help her realise that.
as a female, i have had very similar experiences where in the moment what i thought what was happening was okay. but now that i am older, i realise it was not and that is valid and what those men have done to me is wrong. maybe i did have a laugh and a joke, maybe i did allow them to touch my waist, and maybe i did not walk away like you all expected caiti to do so. but never victim blame. consent is key.
caiti is allowed to look back on this situation, just as i have done with my situations, just as i am sure many other victims of sexual assault/harassment/abuse have done. and every single one of us can agree that what happened to us was wrong, even if in the moment it did not appear that way.
george. you disgust me. she was scared to say your name because of your large following and intimidating fanbase. did you even once say sorry during your prerecorded stream? no. you proceeded to victim blame, but then told your fans to not ‘send hate’. i hope this is the beginning of your downfall. because you are “a bad person”. you display so much arrogance and disrespect it knocks me sick.
to caiti and all other victims, i am sending you all my love. <3
stay safe. know you are loved and your feelings are extremely valid. may we all heal x
