Okay so I needed to say this....
I wanted to talk about kpop shippers. Why do some people take ships seriously? Like they link everything that idols do. If one member holds another member's hand, fans will be like "he is doing that to make him jealous" and so on. Excuse me but let me tell you that the idols don't belong to the member you ship them with. They are free to hold whoever's hands they want.
I was once watching WooSanHwa's vlive and someone commented "San suits Seonghwa better than Wooyoung". Are you the one who choose San's best friend? No. If he wants Wooyoung then it's his choice. Another thing that annoys me is when people Comments under their post saying "oh they look so in love." Or "look at the way he is looking at him. They are literally dating." These idols may feel uncomfortable to be labelled as gays when they are not. You should think about their feelings also. I know it's cute and all but this isn't a valid reason. Some of you may say that they are too close to be just best friends well let me tell you that in korea kisses and hugs mean nothing romantically.
Okay let's just say that I'm wrong and they are actually gays. But the couple you ships aren't dating and are dating other members. Imagine how the members would feel seeing their boyfriends being shipped with someone else and how good they look. This may seems fake but it could be true as well. And even IF the couple you ship are dating, that doesn't give you tge right to comment these unless they are official. I'm not saying that you should stop shipping your faves together. I also ship Jikook, WooSang, SanHwa, WooHwa and many more. I even write stories about them. Just stop posting comments about them dating under their posts-