EmilyClarwnce
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I’m aware, that as usual, I’m hella late to this situation, but what the actual fuck Wilbur? For those who aren’t yet informed, Wilbur basically was an awful boyfriend and an abuser to Shubble. I’d def recommend looking into the situation bc I’m not totally comfortable explaining what happened here. But I supported him for 4 years. I had a fucking crush on him for a couple months. I thought he was an amazing person, one to aspire to be like. Ik no one is perfect, but to enjoy hurting you partner, someone who you’re supposed to be able to trust with your life, instead of just ending the relationship, is fucking sick. Wilbur Soot has lost my goddamn respect and as someone who supported him from a decently young age, this fucking hurts. I feel so badly for Shelby and I would definitely go support her in anyway you can, and stop supporting Wilbur. I’m like actually shaking with anger about all of this so I feel bad for my taekwondo partners haha. But genuinely, abuse is terrifying and im so proud of Shelby for finding the courage to come out and tell us. I know she must have felt uncomfortable and I of course condemn this behavior. We need to support those who are being abused and raise actual awareness about domestic violence and abuse, as well as gaslighting, manipulation, and victim-blaming. There is so much more I want to say, but the amount of languages and time that would take to type out, I do not have. I’m severely disappointed in Wilbur, especially in the lack of accountability. I feel so bad that Shelby felt so anxious in a relationship that is supposed to be safe. I have anxiety myself and sometimes it gets bad, but I can’t imagine being in that spiked state all the time. All in all, I’m angry and disappointed in Wilbur, for a multitude of reasons, and I’m proud of Shelby and I stand with her all the way.
Dolphin1605
@EmilyClarwnce I think billzo said smth a while ago that looking back seems like a warning
EmilyClarwnce
We definitely shouldn’t have ignored the signs from Niki and I just shudder in thinking about what he did to other people.
