meepmeepe

Hey can I possibly get some advice? My best friend doesn't believe in genders outside female and male. I've actually been arguing with her about this for the past hour over Snapchat. But I'm genderflux/genderfluid (I'm still trying to figure that out). How on earth do I tell her? I don't want to keep it from her, cause sooner or later she'll start asking questions about why I want to cut and dye my hair, and why some days I wear masculine clothes and and some days I just go for a complete neutral look. Why I pack extra clothes on sleepovers. Why I don't ever wear makeup. I need help.