ILoveRamen11123

So recently I got a wig because I have taken a liking to cosplay. The wig was platinum blonde and slightly curled while my hair is naturally brown and curly. I told people it was my real hair and that I had dyed it, to see if they'd believe me and went to the park with my auntie and cousins. My 7 year old cousin fully believed my no questions asked and when my uncle was saying it was a wig, she kept defending me and saying it was real. Her brother had told me that she hated me earlier that day so I was still pretty mad...Later on, I removed the wig in front of them and said that it was in fact a wig. My cousin got really upset and wouldn't say anything to anyone but because she usually acts pretty spoiled and petty I didn't think much of it. A few minutes ago, my auntie called saying that as she was putting my cousin to bed, she was crying saying that today was the worst day of her life. I then discovered that my cousin sees me like some queen and my word is law and the whole truth. I feel really bad and I didn't know that what I was using as confirmation that the wig looked real, was going to scar her this badly...
          	What should I do to reconcile with her because I can't sleep knowing I hurt her this badly. She thinks I pranked her to make her sad...T^T

alpha4ever003

@ILoveRamen11123 well... i think that you should maybe just do things that your cousin likes, I don't know much about her- but she seems to adore you... do things that your younger cousin likes... if she likes chocolate give her chocolate- kind of spoil her if?
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alpha4ever003

hiiiiiiiii!!!!!!!!

alpha4ever003

ight. have a nice day/night!
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ILoveRamen11123

@alpha4ever003 oh damn by brother's coming! gotta go
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ILoveRamen11123

So recently I got a wig because I have taken a liking to cosplay. The wig was platinum blonde and slightly curled while my hair is naturally brown and curly. I told people it was my real hair and that I had dyed it, to see if they'd believe me and went to the park with my auntie and cousins. My 7 year old cousin fully believed my no questions asked and when my uncle was saying it was a wig, she kept defending me and saying it was real. Her brother had told me that she hated me earlier that day so I was still pretty mad...Later on, I removed the wig in front of them and said that it was in fact a wig. My cousin got really upset and wouldn't say anything to anyone but because she usually acts pretty spoiled and petty I didn't think much of it. A few minutes ago, my auntie called saying that as she was putting my cousin to bed, she was crying saying that today was the worst day of her life. I then discovered that my cousin sees me like some queen and my word is law and the whole truth. I feel really bad and I didn't know that what I was using as confirmation that the wig looked real, was going to scar her this badly...
          What should I do to reconcile with her because I can't sleep knowing I hurt her this badly. She thinks I pranked her to make her sad...T^T

alpha4ever003

@ILoveRamen11123 well... i think that you should maybe just do things that your cousin likes, I don't know much about her- but she seems to adore you... do things that your younger cousin likes... if she likes chocolate give her chocolate- kind of spoil her if?
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ILoveRamen11123

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My auntie told me I should get anger management...
          
          Why? 
          
          Because I shouted at my brother for a valid reason. 
          
          So my mother had to leave for a business trip and I have to stay at my aunties. My brother was sick so he stayed home and I got sick so I got sent home from school. I'm SENT HOME which means I should STAY HOME.
           My auntie makes us all go out for a bike ride when my cousins get home from school. So its me, my bro, my two cousins and my auntie. I'm not a fan of going out so everyone has a bike apart from me so I had to use my uncles bike.
           So I'm peeved because I have to go out when I'm sick. But the worst part is that my uncle is a lot taller than me. When I'm standing on my tip toes, my lower area is SITTING on the frame of the bike. THE SEAT IS HIGHER THAN THE FRAME. 
          
          I've ridden that bike before and it ended badly because I hit my lower regions when I stopped the bike because I am too SHORT. 
          I tell my auntie this fact and she says that I'll be fine and that I have to come. 
          
          So I go and I'm very upset about it. Everything is going fine until my auntie decides to stop in the park to exercise on the bars. I get off fine. While on the bars, my wanker of a brother decides to change my gears without me knowing. We finish the bars and get on the bikes. 
          I tried to go but it was set on number 8 (gears) and I FELL OFF THE BIKE! 
          I HIT MY AREA AND FELL OFF THE BLOODY BIKE. NOW I'M SUPER PISSED AND I SHOUT AT THE IDIOT. AND MY AUNTIE HAS THE AUDACITY TO TELL ME THAT I HAVE TO GO GET ANGER MANAGEMENT?! 
          I FUCKING HIT MYSLEF AND FELL YOU BLOODY WANKSTAIN!!!!!!!! I HAVE THE RIGHT TO SHOUT AT THE LITTLE DICKHEAD!!!!!!
          
          I'm sorry maybe that wasn't a valid reason and I really should get anger management...idk

Oke444

@ILoveRamen11123 I don't think you need one, your reason for shouting at your brother is totally justified in it's own rights.
            
            Same happens to at times, it never seems to be the fault of the younger sibling if the older is the first to shout. It pisses me off almost all the time and there is nothing I can do but move on.
            
            So take heart, if learned to not just give a damn any more. 
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ILoveRamen11123

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oml I'm stuck in quarantine because I sneezed at school ONCE and I was really bored so I just did my Kirishima cosplay makeup (fight me - not really pls). 
          
          Now I'm scared because I now I'm gonna be in deep shit when my mother comes back from mass because I'm not allowed to cosplay when I'm sick

ILoveRamen11123

I'm slightly irritated because I got into a bad habit of saying 'Love' at the end of a sentence when talking to someone. 
          I mean yeah, I always said it but that wasn't nearly as often as I do it now. I've even started saying that when I text people. None of my sentences sound right without the 'love' at the end 

ILoveRamen11123

  sorry I'm not really one to ignore people. But yeah it is a really British thing to do. My biggest problem is that whenever I'm doing an English creative writing mock exam where there's dialogue, I make the character say 'love' and my teacher told me to try and decrease the amount of times I say it  
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blxxdykai

*wheeze* that is such a British thing to do (ignore me I'm also British) 
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