LeSecretDelavie

On “Living life for the both of us ~ Jonghyun”
          	
          	I had spent months contemplating on whether or not I should embark on this project. It was a very difficult decision to make. The main reason was because a large part of the work would be presuming the late Kim Jong Hyun’s thoughts and words, which may be read as being disrespectful. Some people may think that it has a poor taste because of that approach.
          	
          	Yet, I know very well that many mourning Blingers dream about Jonghyun, even imagine having conversations with him on the daily basis. I know that some still cry out of sadness and anger about his sudden departure. I know that their depression got worse since the day he left. I know that some are tired and want to give up. I know, because I talk to some of them on the web everyday. But, I don’t really know who or where they are to send help. 
          	
          	Therefore, I decided to do this project, using a standpoint of a late-admirer and her imagination to convey "Jonghyun’s wishes". Because of such imagination, this project is listed as Fanfiction.
          	
          	I wholeheartedly believe that Jong Hyun fought with all he had and that he would want his beloved and his fans to live well. Hence, I hope to remind people of his caring and loving personality. Through this project, I hope to bring Blingers together so people can talk, encourage, and help each other win the battle against depression.
          	 
          	Depression hurts. A person suffering from depression needs the appropriate medication, skilled psychiatrists, good diet and exercise routine, the ability to manage his/her thinking process, and an understanding support group. But not everyone can find this perfect combination where they live. Thus, I hope to create open, informative, and meaningful conversations about depression, in order to raise awareness of depression so everyone in our society can take part in the fight against it. 
          	
          	I pray that Jong Hyun is resting in peace. I pray that none of you will give up. Please know that you are precious!

LeSecretDelavie

On “Living life for the both of us ~ Jonghyun”
          
          I had spent months contemplating on whether or not I should embark on this project. It was a very difficult decision to make. The main reason was because a large part of the work would be presuming the late Kim Jong Hyun’s thoughts and words, which may be read as being disrespectful. Some people may think that it has a poor taste because of that approach.
          
          Yet, I know very well that many mourning Blingers dream about Jonghyun, even imagine having conversations with him on the daily basis. I know that some still cry out of sadness and anger about his sudden departure. I know that their depression got worse since the day he left. I know that some are tired and want to give up. I know, because I talk to some of them on the web everyday. But, I don’t really know who or where they are to send help. 
          
          Therefore, I decided to do this project, using a standpoint of a late-admirer and her imagination to convey "Jonghyun’s wishes". Because of such imagination, this project is listed as Fanfiction.
          
          I wholeheartedly believe that Jong Hyun fought with all he had and that he would want his beloved and his fans to live well. Hence, I hope to remind people of his caring and loving personality. Through this project, I hope to bring Blingers together so people can talk, encourage, and help each other win the battle against depression.
           
          Depression hurts. A person suffering from depression needs the appropriate medication, skilled psychiatrists, good diet and exercise routine, the ability to manage his/her thinking process, and an understanding support group. But not everyone can find this perfect combination where they live. Thus, I hope to create open, informative, and meaningful conversations about depression, in order to raise awareness of depression so everyone in our society can take part in the fight against it. 
          
          I pray that Jong Hyun is resting in peace. I pray that none of you will give up. Please know that you are precious!

LeSecretDelavie

On “BECAUSE IT’S YOU”
          
          I do maintain that romantic love is equal regardless of gender. In my view, love is not just an emotion but a psycho-physiological reaction. Love is the PARTICULAR nexus of all senses that are triggered by a SPECIFIC individual in another SPECIFIC individual. That is why most people can't explain why they love certain someone. Simply because the phenomenon is too complex.
          
          Via a friend’s introduction, I watched the Thai boy-love drama series Bad Romance and Together With Me. The plot was simple. Yet, it urged me to think about the topics that I had avoided thinking about in depth - homosexuality, gay sex, and the familial structure. 
          
          I am using the personal point of views of the 2 characters in this story to share my views on these sensitive topics. I hope to make a point that true love is beautiful. It just is. 
          
          Warmest regards,
          
          @LeSecretDelavie
          https://www.wattpad.com/story/156266254-because-it%27s-you