You’d be surprised what life and education and taxes does to a person. It wasn’t all this stress before. It was easier to have a job and have a house and care for other then. Now, if you don’t have a job or a proper education, you end up feeling like a burden. People really carry that on their shoulders. Hell, I carry on my own right now - juggling college and work to have enough saved up to leave the house and live with roommates.