HI EVERYONE!!!
I know I have been a jerk for staying inactive. But as I already said my board exams are knocking on the door to have a WWE with me, I have poured all my time into my studies.
But today I'm here because I felt I needed to be. I have learned something nice recently and I think my followers and readers should have some knowledge about this too. So here I am.
So what I learned is
CRYING IS NOT A WEAKNESS, BABE RATHER IT'S YOUR STRENGTH.
always remember those who say don't cry why are you crying crying is not a solution. first of all what you do is ignore them, stop crying, leave the place, and go somewhere nobody will see you(the washroom is a good option but if you have someone who does not judge your tears then run to them) and cry as much as you want.
and to those people who think crying is a weakness,
Have you ever cried at the very lowest point of your life? NO! For sure or they should've known how much crying helps. crying helps you in both mental and physical ways.
Mental way:
Crying enhances your mood. it releases stress. it helps recover your pain and makes you feel lighter.
Physical way:
your sleeping habits will improve. It will clear your eyes and clean the germs. it will detoxify your body as well and many more good things happen.
Do you think after all this crying should be termed as a weakness?
When you see someone close to you crying while sharing some sorrows of their life, rather than scolding or shouting at them to not cry, Hold them in your arms or hold their hands at least and say
YOUR FEELINGS ARE VALID. I UNDERSTAND YOU AND MAYBE I CAN'T BE MUCH OF A HELP BUT LETTING YOU KNOW THAT YOU ARE NOT ALONE. YOU GOT ME, A SUPPORTER.
(obviously when someone close to you is going through so much.)
I'm telling this to you guys because recently I've been going through a lot and no one is saying like this to me. and when I'm crying my pain out, some people are shouting and scolding me for being weak, for crying.
Stay healthy!
