Soudam_YAY
I’m alive for a bit again, may or may not leave once I get exhausted I guess we’ll find out together d(^_^o)
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Also happy pride month to you guys sense it’s the first here (idk if it is everywhere)
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as you may or may not know, I don't mind what pronouns I go by but everyone uses She/Her. lately, I've noticed I'm not comfortable with my body when it comes to my chest. I've also noticed I'm more comfortable in some situations being referred to as male (for example I'll refer to myself as an emo boy or I'd rather be someone's Boyfriend/ partner than a girlfriend although I don't mind wife) anyways recently I've been thinking about getting a binder but I'm not sure A.) if I'm really questioning or if it's just side effects from my anxiety/ depression or B.) if I'm not Trans is it okay for me to get a binder in the first place. I'd really appreciate some advice on this topic because I don't even know anymore :')
eclipse_cta
@Soudam_YAY Personally I’d suggest trying to figure out what makes you uncomfortable with yourself and if anyone is causing it. Figuring out what you feel like is hard. Before I came out as a trans male I referred to myself as bigender, mostly because I did not want to let go of the female figure, scared of what others would think. And I believe you do not have to be transgender to get a binder, if you feel comfortable binding and happy having a flattened chest I’d suggest that you get one (bind properly please). Gender identity takes time. But meanwhile make your most out of it. Experiment with ways to make yourself feel comfortable, and maybe you’ll find what you’re looking for. I’m not entirely sure what a fitting answer would be. Although I wish you the best at figuring out what you feel comfortable with being :)
Soudam_YAY
I have COVID just found out today I hate everything so much :'(
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@Allforthatgay I just finished my first week back actually! Thanks for the support though lmaoo
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If Phoenix Wright X Miles Edgeworth is your thing I’m working on a new book about them! Two chapters are out and the third one is gonna be out January 1st (for me)
zagreus96
@ Soudam_YAY I am actually playing Dual Destinies (the fifth game) and i can ensure you that the second is really a masterpiece. Every game of the Ace Attorney serie is great. If you would like to talk with someone about it, you'll find me here :)
Soudam_YAY
@zagreus96 I recently started the second game and I love it so much!! I'm totally gonna have to check your stuff out later when I'm free!! :)
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thoughts and feelings on a Wrightworth/ Edgewright/ Narumitsu book-
also, how the fuck do you get Narumistu from Miles Edgeworth and Phoenix Wright???
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Guyss do you ever just have a crush and try to Gaslight yourself out of it?? not me.... by the wayyyy how do you know if you have a crush on someone...? asking for a friend :)
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I have 5 missing assignments because i was out sick from school one day FML :'(
Soudam_YAY
I Hope Y’all Had/ Will Have A Great Halloween. Happy Halloween And Stay Safe Everyone <3
Soudam_YAY
Uhhhhh, I Hate My Life! Weeks Of Work Down The Drain God Knows How It All Got Deleted. I’m Never Gonna Get This Done istfg
xOiSimpx
@Soudam_YAY I'm sure you can get it done just take the time you need! I don't think any of us would want to rush you <3
