@Hacker_Gurl_0fficial no its fine, things in life are often connected one way or another. Not to mention it will help teach you a lesson to stay focused and stay on track. I find a lot of women are like that. And its usually something found easily of those who became successful in life. Humans sadly, learn from suffering and misery after all, no matter how big or small. The importance is from learning from it. But of course, she is suspicious of you, you talk the walk, now you have to walk the talk. But give her time, she needs to realize on her own that she is being selfish and irrationally possessive. Or her boyfriend or "stake", tells her to shape up. Do not interfere or talk into this, as humans are most of the time stupidly independent on a need to be a ignorant know it all