ValentineHopeValdez

I find it annoying when my parents do this. I tell my parents I’m sick and they brush it off and act like it’s no concern of theirs if I’m ill then the one time I’m feeling sick and congested and don’t even have a fever not telling my parents because they will brush it off just like every other time, they act all concerned like I’m something of importance to them. Because I’m not. I’ve been  diagnosed with depression and anxiety and my doctors have told me that I need pills for both to stabilize my condition and it’s been months and my parents have ignored it and when I remind them we need to set up an appointment for the doctor to get that done they brush me off like they don’t care. It ticks me off and I’m honestly so done with them acting like this. I’m the middle child so I’m ignored a lot in my house and when my sister(the oldest)got anxiety then rushed her to the hospital to help her. And when I get depression and anxiety they ignore it treat me horribly. So no, I can’t keep my room clean, sometimes I fail in school and I’m not the best at some things, but all I ask is that they care for once in their lives about their middle child for real reasons. They treat my like I’m here to get their anger out throw thing at and that all I’m good for is cleaning for them and I’m finally so pissed off that I can’t hold it in anymore. But any time I try to talk to them or tell them about my concerns they brush me off and tell me to clean my room or do the dishes. I’m done with how they treat me. I’ve tried to run away and that didn’t work to show them how I feel. I’ve tried to talk to them but they only listen when I tell them I’ve clean the house and I want more chores to do. I don’t know what to do anymore. I’m so sick and tired of them treating me like I’m nothing because now I almost always feel that way. I feel worthless. Like if I don’t do things for someone they won’t care about me. That I need to apologize even though I did nothing. I honestly don’t know what to do

SimpingforViktor

@ValentineHopeValdez have you ever tierd talking to some relatives a friend or just someone.  I had a really dark time in my life a couple of months ago it stoped but when I was really really down I just wanted to talk to someone but no one wanted to listen to those things so I wrote them down . I wrote every single thing that bothered me . I don't say it cured my sadness but I just felt happier . I just had a pen and a paper but you can talk to someone close to or even to a stranger . But I promise that it will get better and I don't say just because all say that . I experienced that feeling that makes you think nothing and no one can make it better . Well I am happier now and I just try to smile every day not thinking about sad things. Listening to happy music that makes me happy . The thoughts of me being useless and a failure haven't gotten away but now I just try to think happy and I know you can be happy to . If your parents don't want to buy you the pills then talk to a relative and ask if they can help . I know what you think ,what if they talk to my parents and they will make me feel more useless. My question is are you sure that will happen? And if you say yes than I ask you again did you try and see it with your eyes ? 
          	  I hope you'll get better as soon as possible
          	  All the love and support from me   
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ValentineHopeValdez

I find it annoying when my parents do this. I tell my parents I’m sick and they brush it off and act like it’s no concern of theirs if I’m ill then the one time I’m feeling sick and congested and don’t even have a fever not telling my parents because they will brush it off just like every other time, they act all concerned like I’m something of importance to them. Because I’m not. I’ve been  diagnosed with depression and anxiety and my doctors have told me that I need pills for both to stabilize my condition and it’s been months and my parents have ignored it and when I remind them we need to set up an appointment for the doctor to get that done they brush me off like they don’t care. It ticks me off and I’m honestly so done with them acting like this. I’m the middle child so I’m ignored a lot in my house and when my sister(the oldest)got anxiety then rushed her to the hospital to help her. And when I get depression and anxiety they ignore it treat me horribly. So no, I can’t keep my room clean, sometimes I fail in school and I’m not the best at some things, but all I ask is that they care for once in their lives about their middle child for real reasons. They treat my like I’m here to get their anger out throw thing at and that all I’m good for is cleaning for them and I’m finally so pissed off that I can’t hold it in anymore. But any time I try to talk to them or tell them about my concerns they brush me off and tell me to clean my room or do the dishes. I’m done with how they treat me. I’ve tried to run away and that didn’t work to show them how I feel. I’ve tried to talk to them but they only listen when I tell them I’ve clean the house and I want more chores to do. I don’t know what to do anymore. I’m so sick and tired of them treating me like I’m nothing because now I almost always feel that way. I feel worthless. Like if I don’t do things for someone they won’t care about me. That I need to apologize even though I did nothing. I honestly don’t know what to do

SimpingforViktor

@ValentineHopeValdez have you ever tierd talking to some relatives a friend or just someone.  I had a really dark time in my life a couple of months ago it stoped but when I was really really down I just wanted to talk to someone but no one wanted to listen to those things so I wrote them down . I wrote every single thing that bothered me . I don't say it cured my sadness but I just felt happier . I just had a pen and a paper but you can talk to someone close to or even to a stranger . But I promise that it will get better and I don't say just because all say that . I experienced that feeling that makes you think nothing and no one can make it better . Well I am happier now and I just try to smile every day not thinking about sad things. Listening to happy music that makes me happy . The thoughts of me being useless and a failure haven't gotten away but now I just try to think happy and I know you can be happy to . If your parents don't want to buy you the pills then talk to a relative and ask if they can help . I know what you think ,what if they talk to my parents and they will make me feel more useless. My question is are you sure that will happen? And if you say yes than I ask you again did you try and see it with your eyes ? 
            I hope you'll get better as soon as possible
            All the love and support from me   
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