Vermillion-San

Would any of y’all care if I updated my Rody Soul x reader?

_Manjiirou

Vermillion-San

[This is merely a venting session; you don’t have to read this]
          
          I have mixed feelings about having a kid of my own someday. Most of the time, I don’t want one, but at the same time…seeing little babies and children laugh so thoughtlessly with their parents…folding baby and children clothes as a Macy’s associate…it changes things sometimes…
          
          Problem is I kind of have to think about that decision now, given my circumstances, for the future that I want to build with a spouse one day…
          
          Of course, I’m not stressed out about it, but…it hurts to think about the possibilities in me not being able to produce a child, if I do decide not to take action now…
          
          I can’t really talk about this kind of stuff with my siblings or family too; wouldn’t really make that much of a difference either way, b/c I’m the only one who’s ever experienced something like this among the family, and is basically built differently, in terms of genetics.
          
          Surely, it’s nothing that you guys should be concerned about. I just wanted to vent through the one thing I know how to do.
          
          (Probably might do more, who knows?)
          
          

venusfly3

Hey this is a safe space for you, and everyone else.
            
            Those feelings that you have are completely valid since kids are a major life alternating thing, They require so much love and affection. 
            
            I myself am also unsure If I want to have kids One day, on the one hand like you said, you see these perfect little families going around having these wholesome and adorable relationships and a part of you wants that, but then there’s another part of you that thinks that somehow or someway you won’t be a good enough parent to any posible children you may have, and that’s a scary thought but it’s a very common thought and more often than not people who atletas consider these feelings are the one more aware of their future children’s feelings.
            
            No one can truly resonate with oneself since others will have a different opinion on things, but talking out your feelings with someone is always a good step since it allows you to voice you concerns and in a way your speaking them into existence
            
            Like yes, there’s this issue but now I’m acknowledging it and because of that I know that it’s something I can’t run nor escape 
            Im opening the door for a solution 
            
            In any case I might have rambled on and completely run around in circles, I know some things are very private to other so I don’t want to assume anything of you.
            
            Like you said there’s never any rush to have a kid, because first you have to work through the problem of if you want a kid or not but if one day you do decide that a child is what you want, but you physically cannot have one, surrogacy or adoption are very good alternatives. 
            
            At the end of the day anything you decide or come to terms with with is completely up to you so don’t you ever let anyone for you into wanting or believing that you have to have something, it’s your life you have full control of it and in the end of the day your actions are yours alone and  anyone that loves you will be there willing to help you out. 
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Vermillion-San

DON’T TALK TO ME, WE HAVE TO WAIT UNTIL JANUARY TO GET A SEASON 2 OF TOKYO REVENGERS—

-hellotitty

AINT NO WAY TT
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KokosBankAccount

OMG EXACTLY IM SO UPSET 
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-LIFEISNOTTHATEASY

@Vermillion-San  FRRR I WAS EXPECTING IT TO BE ON SEPT OR SMTH
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