_northeastside

I treat my parent the same way they treated me in childhood : not like a priority

_northeastside

@MADEFROMDREAM_S i just received the notification on Instagram u added the right account 
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MADEFROMDREAM_S

@_northeastside shi, I can’t find it. Just follow me on @herfrea_k
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_northeastside

I treat my parent the same way they treated me in childhood : not like a priority

_northeastside

@MADEFROMDREAM_S i just received the notification on Instagram u added the right account 
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MADEFROMDREAM_S

@_northeastside shi, I can’t find it. Just follow me on @herfrea_k
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_northeastside

Parents get SO hurt when you call them out. 
          I wasn’t trying to hurt you, I’m trying to tell how to stop hurting ME ! 

_northeastside

@ilivereadig put the religion aside and try to build an intimate relationship with God through reading your Bible and praying you don’t know where to start to talk to him like u would like a bestie, YT and Tik tok really helped I am still struggling but it’s all about consistency even if sometimes the prayer last 3min and I haven’t read my Bible that day 
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ilivereadig

Thank you I definitely will !
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_northeastside

@ilivereadig you need to separate God from your parents, they use it God has a form of manipulation to make them right. And make God the bad guy when God and religion is suppose to bring you love, kindness soo much more.  It’s call triangulation manipulation I advice you do some research it’s mind blowing 
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_northeastside

You don’t have to abandon yourself just to carry the weight of emotions others haven’t learned to handle, especially not to feel safe, seen, or worthy of love.

QueenAdaraAndra

@_northeastside thank you I needed this Sis❤️
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-eroticdreams-

@_northeastside || needed this fr! Thank you 
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_northeastside

When you cut off toxic parents you’ll realise how much they were holding you from in life, they didn’t guide you into adulthood you had to learn by yourself. 

ilivereadig

I really do because they’re younger and I don’t want them to experience my life so far as I have .
            Thank you sm author for listening to me and advising me I will be forever grateful :)
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_northeastside

@ilivereadig I know they would be grateful I can tell you love your siblings 
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ilivereadig

I’d never be able to abandon them , I already feel guilty about leaving but I’ll defo call them every day and hopefully she won’t !
            
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_northeastside

Black mother’s toxic behaviors toward their daughters should be studied. 

_northeastside

@ilivereadig I said the same thing to my mother and she’s always dismissive telling me I’m ridiculous for not having kids. I stop sharing everything with her that was important and sensitive. 
            My healing will be avoiding to have children
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ilivereadig

I’m so sorry you went through that and I hope you heal from everything :)
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ilivereadig

Literally like I mention that I don’t want to have kids and they’re shocked ! Like why are you shocked??
            Ive basically been a parent to my siblings at such a young age and it’s drained me 
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_Mandalena

Hey sexy mama!

_Mandalena

@_Mandalena I couldn't find your user. Mine is @mandalenajane
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_northeastside

@_Mandalena come join me on discord. We have soo much to catch up 
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_Mandalena

@_Mandalena it really has been so long. I even made an ig account to catch up with you properly but couldn't find you so I deleted. How have you been holding up?
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1-800-cum-in-me

I haven't talked to u in so long. I miss u sm❤️ I hope you're doing great 

_northeastside

@1-800-cum-in-me the name on discord is "callmenoree"
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_northeastside

@1-800-cum-in-me yes indeed we haven’t talk in a while I miss you too. 
            I’m on discord it u want to catch up 
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