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I'm not the type to think about anything but what the hell am I going to do with my life?
I have no goals, no ambitions, no clear plan on how I'm going to live through my life, and I don't think I'm gonna made it after high school.
My mom's in the hospital after having her 5th kid at 40 years old and she may need surgery because one of the new surgeons screwed up on her incision now she has a blood clot that could kill her
Both my parents told me and were clear on if one of them were to die, the now that are still alive would kill themselves and I still don't know how to process any of it.
I got caught by a family member when I snuck out the other night and now I'm in deep trouble of non-trust and all I could think about is 'what if my mom's last feeling about me is a disappointment before she passes?'
I don't have a good relationship with her but that's my mom ya know?
I can't contact my therapist or any of my friends because my phone was taken away so I can't talk or communicate with anyone about anything.
If my parents were to die I would go and live with my 2nd cousin and to be honest she at first would welcome us into her house then over time she'll ask for money and make me and my older sister pay rent.
I have younger siblings who are 5 and 2 and I usually take care of them because my older sister doesn't do well with kids and she can't process emotion or empathy because of her autism.
I'n not saying she's less than a person because of her disability but it does limit her from doing social or physical affection towards our siblings so I've been playing 'mom'