fandomtrauma

I came out to my Nana (my grandad is mostly dead so I'm text him) and she didn't get angry at me for being nonbinary but she said she's just gonna call me by my deadname so that feels like hell. 
          	
          	If someone had my voodoo doll, either give it hugs please or stab it to death

abi_nicky

@superwholock_trauma  WAIT NO I DIDN'T MEAN DEAD I MEANT DEAF
          	  lmao i was like, that makes no sense but u do u
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abi_nicky

@superwholock_trauma 
          	  sweetie at least shes supportive, maybe try correcting her every time she says Eva? It might start to sink in that you are serious. Itll be ok, :)
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iowasofficialidiot

@superwholock_trauma I'll give your doll hugs. But yes, I shall also grab the arson.
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fandomtrauma

I came out to my Nana (my grandad is mostly dead so I'm text him) and she didn't get angry at me for being nonbinary but she said she's just gonna call me by my deadname so that feels like hell. 
          
          If someone had my voodoo doll, either give it hugs please or stab it to death

abi_nicky

@superwholock_trauma  WAIT NO I DIDN'T MEAN DEAD I MEANT DEAF
            lmao i was like, that makes no sense but u do u
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abi_nicky

@superwholock_trauma 
            sweetie at least shes supportive, maybe try correcting her every time she says Eva? It might start to sink in that you are serious. Itll be ok, :)
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iowasofficialidiot

@superwholock_trauma I'll give your doll hugs. But yes, I shall also grab the arson.
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fandomtrauma

I've put off coming out to my grandparents yet again but ILL DO IT SOON I SWEAR I'm just terrified

iowasofficialidiot

@superwholock_trauma Dude, it's fine :) I haven't come out to my grandparents (they're homophobic and transphobic, not to mention racist Trump supporters) yet...I tried having my little brother tell them, but this is how it went:
            
            Brother: Hey Papa, guess what!
            Grandpa: What?
            Brother: [Insert my name] is gay!
            Grandpa: No, SHE'S not. Stop saying that. Are you [insert my name]?
            Me: *peeking out from the bathroom door* :'D
            
            (I'm still trying to figure out if I'm gay and cis or straight and trans...)
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personandorthing

Someone who likes the land of stories, hunger games, divergent (haven’t finished the last one so no spoilers please!) Harry Potter and a bunch of Musicals?!  I’m following you :)

personandorthing

@superwholock_trauma Believe me my friends have told me and I don’t think I’m ready from what they’ve told me
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fandomtrauma

@personandorthing You're gonna be devastated by the last Divergent book
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fandomtrauma

So it turns out I'm coming out to my grandparents tomorrow rather than today because I'm a coward so the update on how it went will be a bit later

Uncanny_Valley

@superwholock_trauma arson is always the answer
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fandomtrauma

Hello my fellow gremlins
          
          I'm coming out to my grandparents today as non-binary since they still use my deadname which feels like hell. I'm doing it over  the phone because if I do it to their face I'll have a panic attack. Thing is, they're coming over tomorrow and I have no idea how they're gonna take it because I've never brought up LGBTQ+ stuff around them. I'll let you know how it goes and if they hate me or not. If it goes badly, my life is going to be a living hell until I go back to my dad's house, but at least I have my cats

cool_gay_too_much

Have fun! And I hope they don’t do the “oh everything was so much easier in the good old days with two genders and one orientation” dance
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fandomtrauma

Note: will have triggers!
          
          TRIGGERS: r*pe, s*xual assault, and other really bad stuff.
          
          On TikTok, there is a terrible trend going around. On April 24th, a bunch of men declares that it's "national r*pe day", and that it's legal to r*pe women and children. On that day, they will attempt to r*pe as many people that they can. 
          
          For all of you, stay safe. 
          TIPS:
          Don't go anywhere alone, bring a group of friends and/or family.
          
          Carry something to protect yourself, a book, a very sharp pencil, scissors, pepper spray, heck, even bring a knife. Your safety is what matters the most.
          
          If you can, STAY HOME!
          
          Stay. Alert. 
          
          Do not panic. 
          
          If someone grabs you, scream. Just scream, scream as loud as you can, start crying. And most of all, scream "FIRE!" 
          
          FOUR MAIN THINGS:
          
          1: If you can, stay home, don't go out.
          2: If you must go out, bring a group of friends
          3: If you can't do that, make sure to bring weapons. 
          4: If you get touched, scream. Punch them were it'll hurt the most. 
          
          If any of you need anything, pm me. Whether if you need tips, or if you just want someone to talk to, I'm here.  
          
          Here is a link where they explain it more. 
          
          https://www.wattpad.com/1057545325-please-read-april-24th
          
          please stay safe <3

fandomtrauma

@catguy357 Yeah sure. the aim is to get as many people to know as possible
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iowasofficialidiot

@superwholock_trauma Thank you for letting us know! Do you mind if I copy and paste to help spread the word?
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cool_gay_too_much

Hello my genderfluid (I think) Friend! I am also a gleek, just to let you know (:

cool_gay_too_much

@superwholock_trauma no omg lol it’s fine I found you on someone else’s profile 
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fandomtrauma

@cool_gay_too_much sorry that probably sounds really weird
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fandomtrauma

@cool_gay_too_much hey just out of curiosity, how did you find me? was it a comment or something?
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