𝑎𝑟𝑖𝑎𝑛𝑎 ꨄ.

If you set a boundary and someone oversteps. Don’t question it. How people treat you is a reflection of how they feel about themselves. You setting that boundary shows that you have self-respect, and they want to challenge that. Your response should be cutting them off or distancing yourself, because what is warned about more than once… will be warned about forever. I learned that the hard way.

And now I’m suddenly the bad person? Weird. It drives me crazy when people do that. Like how you mad I’m giving you the same energy?

@jimmyxneutron don't forget your support friends and family 

@jimmyxneutron girl same

@Serenitysnowdrop They know boo, they just don’t want to accept it. I feel like bisexuality is far more accepting because there’s still that chance of a “hetero” relationship. And you aren’t dramatic lol, it’s really the same for me. Every friend that’s a guy either wants sex or a relationship and i’m not going for either so I tend to stay away from them

@_northeastside I try but i get so socially anxious so it’s hard to put myself out there for friendships. I do have homegirls, and don’t get me wrong i love them dearly but certain things are so unrelatable. I have a friend that’s also a lesbian but the kicker is that she lives 19 hours away by drive and it really does suck not being able to hang with her. Gossiping about the pickme is hilarious btw.

@jimmyxneutron Dude I’ve also had to label myself as bisexual because of pressure or whatever but it didn’t feel right. I don’t think people get that we all aren’t attracted to men. For me I like men from afar once they try to be all relationshipy with me I feel so so uncomfortable like sir get away from me idk if I’m being dramatic or what but I really would love it if men stayed away from me

@_northeastside lol exactly, you get me ! sexiest thing ever to me

@jimmyxneutron OMG why did it sound soo hot that it’s almost make me wet . 

@_northeastside sure ! so a stud in this context is a black masculine (lesbian) presenting woman and by “switch it up”, I meant one who is able to emulate feminine energy along with masculine at times. so if I see a stud that’s particularly doing something that’s deemed feminine like having her nails & toes done or her hair done up, it’s just sexy to me