lostnfovnd7

It’s a never ending dilemma. Was he actually the way I thought he was? Was he better or worse? Was it all my fault? Could it have been different if I did therapy and dealt with my emotions separately and didn’t throw it all on him? I’ve never done therapy but I have extreme mood swings. I don’t know if It’s true, but I might have Borderline Personality Disorder 

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Thank you so much for your response, it has been very helpful 
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Shiningjennie_15

@lostnfovnd7 Actually...you can't do anything about that now, so thinking about all that now will do nothing, the problem is from both sides and leads to a breakup, so don't blame yourself for everything, If someone really loves you, he will always be there for you despite of your behaviour or mood swings, if he had to leave he eventually would even if you controlled your emotions.but if you still feel like having a therapy, go for it, maybe it will help you now, because now blaming yourself for everything will not change the past.
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lostnfovnd7

It’s a never ending dilemma. Was he actually the way I thought he was? Was he better or worse? Was it all my fault? Could it have been different if I did therapy and dealt with my emotions separately and didn’t throw it all on him? I’ve never done therapy but I have extreme mood swings. I don’t know if It’s true, but I might have Borderline Personality Disorder 

lostnfovnd7

Thank you so much for your response, it has been very helpful 
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Shiningjennie_15

@lostnfovnd7 Actually...you can't do anything about that now, so thinking about all that now will do nothing, the problem is from both sides and leads to a breakup, so don't blame yourself for everything, If someone really loves you, he will always be there for you despite of your behaviour or mood swings, if he had to leave he eventually would even if you controlled your emotions.but if you still feel like having a therapy, go for it, maybe it will help you now, because now blaming yourself for everything will not change the past.
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lostnfovnd7

Why do break ups feel like the end of the world? Some days I wake up and i am fine, some other days I feel like letting him go was the worst mistake of my life. It was an online long distance thing, but I’ve never felt connected to someone as much as this time. The worst part about online dating is that you hold an idealistic expectation towards that person. What i mean is that, they might be something, but in our head we project them to be exactly the way we want them, to fill up all of the voids and traumas that have been hunting us. I hope to do okay

Shiningjennie_15

@lostnfovnd7 hey... it's ok, I actually don't like the online thingies because we actually don't know the real personality of the person we are talking to. If the breakup was from his side, he certainly didn't deserve you, and it happened because God minus those people from our lives who don't deserve us, or who just don't belong in your life, so don't be upset about that, I think at this point letting him go was a better choice instead of expecting them to be the way you think even when you haven't even met him physically. This is not the end of life, life is so long, many people will come and go, good and bad, many will hurt you, but if you get sad over them, how will you be able to even live freely? The thing is, the bad memories never go away,we just surround ourselves with a new layer of good memories. What I can say is try to forget him, go on a vacation if you can, meet your friends and family and spend time with them, do your favourite hobby, try a new hobby and stay away from everything extremely related to him. And remember, the right one for you must somewhere there, waiting for you..
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lostnfovnd7

Heyyyy guess who is back??!

lostnfovnd7

Hii guys. I’ll be on hiatus for a month because i have my dissertation to do and 4 exams before finishing my master’s degree. Please pray for me. I’m sorry if I’m not reading your books or updating mine but I barely have time to breathe. 
          
          See you in summer!!!

TanzimaTriesToWrite

@lostnfovnd7  Hi, I'm back on Wattpad. I was thinking where were you. Now I know XD ,Good luck with your exams. I'm finally done with mine.
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Shiningjennie_15

@lostnfovnd7  all the best sissa!! You will do great!
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MissAgataaa

@lostnfovnd7 Good luck with your exams!!!
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