meeky_panda

Thanks for everything my wonderful Wattpad family ❤️
          	
          	Adios until next time ╰⁠(⁠*⁠´⁠︶⁠`⁠*⁠)⁠╯

meeky_panda

@mithrenniel thank you so much little one I wish you the same and will hopefully meet again ❤️
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meeky_panda

@Minakshikk thank you so much I wish you the same ❤️
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mithrenniel

@meeky_panda bye di thank you for everything you have done for me and I hope you achieve all your goals.  you will always have a friend in me and i hope we can met again somewhere all the best for the future
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Savageness06

In every fleeting breath, we take,
          There lies a moment we must make.
          For life is but a string of hours,
          Of joys and wondrous powers.
          
          Live not in the shadows of yesterday,
          Nor sail aimlessly in the future's haze.
          Unveil your heart to the present's call,
          Embrace the now, before it may fall.
          
          In sunrise's embrace, find endless hope,
          As Dawn unveils a brand new scope.
          Let go of worries that may bind,
          For tomorrow's worries, you'll soon find.
          
          When laughter dances upon lips and eyes,
          Treasure those moments, for time, does fly.
          When tears stream down like gentle rain,
          Let them cleanse your soul of silent pain.
          
          So, let us live in the moments that glow,
          In each heartbeat's rhythm, let love grow.
          For on this journey, together we roam,
          In the tapestry of moments, we call home.
          
          You are too young to let the world break ya, have a good night/day!

meeky_panda

@Savageness06 hey thanks for this beautiful poem and sorry for the late reply but I left Wattpad last year....I logged in today after a long time....I will be logging out again....just busy with life. 
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meeky_panda

Thanks for everything my wonderful Wattpad family ❤️
          
          Adios until next time ╰⁠(⁠*⁠´⁠︶⁠`⁠*⁠)⁠╯

meeky_panda

@mithrenniel thank you so much little one I wish you the same and will hopefully meet again ❤️
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meeky_panda

@Minakshikk thank you so much I wish you the same ❤️
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mithrenniel

@meeky_panda bye di thank you for everything you have done for me and I hope you achieve all your goals.  you will always have a friend in me and i hope we can met again somewhere all the best for the future
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meeky_panda

5. Cont..
          Again this is not an attack on anyone I do not want any fight in my message board or in any other people's message board....it is an overall general message to everyone it is some lessons that I learnt through some bitter experiences because books really dominate a major part of my life....I don't want teenagers to repeat my mistakes so if me sharing my experiences could help someone I would really be happy.... everyone on their respective path can be little responsible so that those little peeps who come to this wonderful place learn something good and have a positive influence on their lives....so it's a request to whoever sees this message please try to pass it to people so that even those little readers can be responsible on their path while reading
          
          One more request this is my last point to be addressed to all my friends, writers and fellow readers please do not attack anyone when someone shares their pov....try to understand sometimes it can just be curiosity sometimes it can be an immature opinion and sometimes a positive criticism.... consider people's mental health everyone come here for peace do not hamper anyone's mental peace....when I tell this I even mean mental peace of writers certain things can be said regarding a book or a plot even without attacking a writer....things can be addressed in a more appropriate way where the desired person can understand without feeling attacked.... consider each other's emotions.... before being a writer or reader be a human being and consider each other's feelings....if we start considering feelings of each other we just don't always have to be on defensive or attack mode noone here is an animal everyone here is a human being let's remember that above all and be kind towards each other ❤️

Wanderlust_Lavanya

@meeky_panda Absolutely right..I agree with you..All the best for your future 
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meeky_panda

@Trinayani_3010 thanks dear....I wish you all the best for your future endeavours ❤️
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Trinayani_3010

@meeky_panda   All the best.
            What ever u said it is true.
            This platform is bittersweet.
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meeky_panda

4. Cont...
          Basically coming to the 2nd last point which I have been fighting for a very long time which is silent treatment (according to me it's emotional abuse).....there is a reason I have been fighting against this because this is something I have been given by my parents as I am a single child I was a very pampered child so physical hitting was something that has rarely happened to me so my parent's weapon was silent treatment maybe they used it to calm themselves before speaking to me but it affected me in a wrong way as a child I felt my parents won't ever speak to me it will be just like this forever silence! and with time when I grew up I started using the same silent treatment to the people who loved me even with my parents Ik it is wrong it is emotional abuse and trust me I do it to calm myself most of the time and but now when I have realised it's wrong I try not to do it but I can't help myself doing it everytime I end up in the same loop....I am still trying to stop it I hope someday I will be able to and won't pass it to my future generation.....as a teenager or child what we read or see we try to do it we feel this is the best thing as I have read it and I have seen people doing it but trust me everything we read or see is not right....so for all the writers who uses this as a content in your works there is a request by me to not always portray it as right( again I have mentioned always I am not saying do not use it at all sometimes it can be written as the need of the story I completely understand that but do not always try to portray it as right) 
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meeky_panda

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          that is something I just can't take out from my mind......I am writing this here because I feel being a writer and reader both should be responsible on their paths....a writer should be more responsible as sometimes readers are quite young they don't understand what should not be practiced in real life so a writer should understand it's not always that if you don't like my book then leave because sometimes a reader loves the content that is wrong for him or her (I am not saying the content is wrong but it's just not right for some people) and till the time when they understand it just gets late actually too late to mend one's ways.....So here is a suggestion for the writers before you write anything about physical abuse or mental abuse or emotional abuse please give a proper disclaimer (though I would also request you all to please portray what is wrong as wrong in some point of your book but Ik right and wrong differs from person to person)
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meeky_panda

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          So here I am sharing this because a few months ago I read a book of a teenage writer where she used to write stuff where the father used to hit(more of abuse) the child in order to discipline him there were many more things which a healthy family shouldn't portray so when I wrote in the comment section of her book that it is not nice to justify abuse in the name of disciplining she gave me reasons that it wasn't abuse that the father loved the son and he felt guilty later even her readers supported her( not to forget all were kids of the writer's age who will be like 16 or 17 yrs atmost).....I told her more than her content I was worried about her for writing such stuff She told me a writer could be writing many things she can be writing stuff related murder too but that doesn't mean she would murder someone.... though I agreed to some point with her still my heart didn't accept it so I left the book....like a month back I read in one of the comments by a reader in a writer's message that a writer can write many things but a writer shouldn't be justifying everything what is wrong should be portrayed as wrong in some point of the book....
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meeky_panda

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          So here before I leave I want to share my journey in Wattpad....It started in 2016 when I was a teenager and the books which came on my feed at that time were some real toxic stuff which I didn't know to be toxic at that time.... mostly I read books where the male lead used to molest, abused, raped the female lead due to their own psychological issues and later the female lead used to become their rehab centre and cure them (hahaha now when I am writing this it sounds so funny and stupid of me to like all these stuff) and then they used to fall in love...the female lead would be like main isko sudhar kar hi dam lungi hahaha....jokes apart but when such books are read by a pre adult it affects  unknowingly it affects because teenage is a very confusing period most of the teenagers don't understand what is right and what is wrong.....So it happened to me too I too didn't know the difference between right and wrong at that time A few things seemed to be right but it wasn't.... I tried to be those female leads when I got into relationships although I wasn't physically abused or molested or raped but I was mentally and emotionally abused and that is something which I let it happened to me because I thought it's written in those books so how can it be wrong... the person I love is mentally not ok so it's my duty to help him if I don't do it, it would be me being selfish I was like I can change this person but I didn't understand at that point that I am not a rehab centre neither am I am medical professional to be helping them and it's not my duty....so with time when I grew up I understood where the things went wrong
          
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meeky_panda

Hey everyone....I hope everyone is fine and doing well.... This is going to be a long message so its a request to everyone to read till the end as it is my last message here....Wattpad is a wonderful place isn't it I had the best memories and got some really important lessons of life here....lots of wonderful friends and lots of wonderful people to know......This will be the last message from meeky here as I am leaving Wattpad and before anyone asks me  what happened my answer is nothing happened it's just that I am getting busy with life and Wattpad has become a sort of addiction for me so in order to get out of this addiction I need to cut myself out from this place....So before leaving I have few things to tell to all my dear friends and also few silent messengers who pass messages from here to there(no offence:⁠-⁠P I do want everyone to pass this message so that people learn from my mistakes)
          
          

meeky_panda

I have shared this book once but deleted it later as I was not done reading all the chapters but now I have completed the book till where the writer has updated and guys I could really recommend this book to you all if you are into some brotherhood family related book with some slow gradual growing relation....and also a request if you all have any books related to romance or family dynamics please do suggest me either in comment section or DM me....by romance I don't mean bf gf wala romance I mean romance after marriage like those slow growing one....blame my age I am completely out of the bf gf wala phase lol
          https://www.wattpad.com/story/335540600

meeky_panda

Continuation of the previous thread....
          
          Now coming to the 4th category that gets on my nerves.....they are those writers whose quality is not up to the mark but instead of focusing on improving their quality they are more concerned of not getting votes...I have seen a few of them even putting targets on the character sketch like are you kidding me and mind it even in the character sketch they have made so many mistakes that I can point out.... there only objective is to fulfill their target which obviously don't get fullfill because of their quality of writing and after that they just keep on spamming the reader's notifications asking to fill the target or else they would delete the account and all (please go on and delete it who is stopping you even if one or two might care but at the end no one gives a damn everyone moves on...what is this emotional blackmailing) and if the readers dare to unfollow them after getting irritated with their notifications they will be like some people are hypocrites they follow then they unfollow no writers we are not hypocrites you are hypocrite for not being self aware for not even knowing the quality of your own work and just focusing on getting fame through any means..... Expecting appreciation is ok but asking for validation is not ok you all really need to work own your emotional health before working on your books....There is a very thin line between appreciation and validation please learn to differentiate it.....AND ALSO STOP SPAMMING OUR NOTIFICATIONS ITS REALLY IRRITATING 

Bodhianveshika

Interesting conversations!
            
            My 2 cents:
            - Name calling is the simplest in the world. Perhaps, offense is the best form of defense, so anyone doing it, Good for them, as long as they know when and where to stop.
            - Words are very powerful. Written words more so that spoken words because it is left to one's interpretations and each has their own level of tolerance, acceptance and sensitivities.
            While one should never shy away from sharing one's opinion, its equally important to be responsible in every word spoken.
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Savageness06

@jottoshob_bro I am just annoyed by those writers , cuz I have encountered those types of ppl many times , the credits goes to my bad fate here 
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