@Mackaysgal92 i understand Charlotte rejecting him. She doesn't want him to make a decision out of impulse which might lead them both to a life of misery. I understand grief well - it makes you want to stay with the closest people you have left and sometimes, we may act out off our minds just because of that layer of grief. I think he was a bit rational too, but I understand where he's coming from, where both of them are coming from.