Hi everyone! Sooo I was going to wait till pride month to share this with you guys but let's face it, I can't wait that long!
This is going to be a little long, but I hope that you will take the time to read what I have to say. I hope that when I reveal these things to you, that you do not think any less of me.
For the past 7 months, I have been trying to figure out my sexuality. When I was younger, I had always assumed I was straight because until I was 16, I had no and that there were other sexualities out there besides gay and bisexual.
After a few months of research and other things, I know what I am. It took me a while to embrace what I am, and to convince myself that this is normal!
So, here we go...
I am pansexual!
Definition of pansexuality: Not limited in sexual choice with regard to biological sex, gender, or gender identity.
My definition of pansexuality: Looks and gender don't matter to me. What matters is the person's personality. I may be attracted to some features such as these, but I go based off personality more than anything else.
I think I've always been this way. I remember being 7 years old and watching one of those classic movies where the girl falls in love with the hog guy, yada yada ext.
And I remember saying to myself: "Who cares how hot he is?! What matters most is his personality!"
So, that's one thing I am!
Here's me in pansexual colored clothes!
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I'm also Gray-Axsexual.
Definition of gray-asexuality: People who experience limited sexual attraction. They experience sexual attraction very rarely, or with very low intensity.
I feel that I'm someone who doesn't lean towards sex. I'm not interested in a relationship right now, but if I ever get into one, I would want to have a loving, platonic relationship with the other person.
For example, we would cuddle, nuzzle, kiss lightly and hug and wouldn't see sex as something super critical in the relationship. There may be romantic attraction, but not much sexual attraction.
I'm not saying we'd never have sex, time will tell. I just don't see it as something I can see myself doing in the near future, mainly because of some uh... experiences I've had in the past...
I'm also demisexual.
Definition of demisexuality: Someone who only feels sexually attracted to someone once they've made a strong emotional connection with them.
So, I know a lot of people get married young which is completely fine! But when I was younger, I could never understand how someone could meet someone for the first time and just, have sex with them 20 minutes later!
Or how people could get married so quickly after like, a few months if dating. Now, I'm not judging. It's fine to get married young, but I personally would like to wait quite some time.
In other words, I have to get to know someone before I start having romantic or sexual attraction to them. I'm a very platonic person! I like hugs, cuddles, all that stuff! So yay!
I'm not interested in a relationship right now, and I don't know who I would end up with, but I know that the right person will come along.
Here's me in demisexual and gray-ace colored clothes since they're the same colors!
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That's all! Thank you guys for reading, I'm so happy that I finally understand my sexuality after being confused about it for so long!
