Okay so wait this is kinda serious, as theres been a lot of bad activity recently; I'm personally a switch but it is truly important to look for the small differences between a real Daddy/CG and a fake one. You should never be collared by someone wanting to be your lover, but without contract, because collaring truly isn't a joke. Real Daddy's will make sure you know exactly what the collar means to them and communicate why they have given it to you and what you wearing it entails.