𝐖𝐎𝐍𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐍𝐆𝐈𝐒𝐌

mindset (pt. 2)

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„ 𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐈 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐬𝐞𝐞, 𝐈 𝐚𝐦 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐠𝐢𝐫𝐥 𝐛𝐚𝐛𝐲, 𝐬𝐡𝐞'𝐬 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐈 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝 "

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𝘩𝘪 𝘮𝘺 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘴 !

As you all know, i'm starting to write again. So - just like the title says - this chapter is gonna be about your mindset^^ 

I won't even keep on talking but start the chapter right away! 

( quotes are not mine, they are all from instagram )

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„ take your mistakes as an opportunity to improve. Start analysing what you need to change to not make that mistake again. If you do it again it's okay, not everything is as easy as said. Take your time and don't rush yourself "

guys, some of us may be perfectionists but it's impossible to be perfect and mistakes are completely fine! Take Enhypen's Jungwon as example (if you know him): he accidentally sang the korean instead of the Japanese version of a song on a concert. Is that a bad mistake? Not at all! But who knows what was going through his mind that day. So if you make a mistake, there's no problem at all! Every day gives us a new opportunity to improve. Instead of waking up and saying „man yesterday was terrible" say, „today will be amazing"! 

( not meant bad at all to jungwon, bae showed them all he's singing for real! love him<3 )

„ you were born an original, don't die a copy. this world doesn't need another madison beer, another wonyoung, or another XYZ. it's needs a new YOU. don't lose your uniqueness for the sake of fitting in. "

Yes, this is called wonyoungism but that doesn't mean we want to be wonyoung. she is our inspiration and an example maybe but don't copy everything someone does. no one is you and no one will ever be you, same with wonyoung, madison beer and so on. you have your own dreams and goals so trying to copy someone will only distract you from living your life, always remember that!

„  Never stop being a good person because of bad people "

this can really be the worst thing. trying to fit in changes who we are. there's this classmate of mine who really changed me. and guys this was not even a month ago... you know she's a really rude person which i didn't notice at first and i slowly became a little like her. talking bad about people for no reason. and i really regret that because i really want to be a kind and warm person. i'm glad i found out i was doing the wrong thing so i distanced myself from her and became the good old nana again. but what i'm trying to say is: no matter what, always be kind and respectful! and always be yourself <3

" Don't try to be what you're not. If you're nervous, be nervous. If you're shy, be shy. Its cute"      - Adriana Lima

this is kind of the same as the second quote i wrote down. but i want to add that being introverted is no problem at all. i'm introverted myself and yes, i'm really shy and hesitant in doing some things sometimes. this is just our character. we are introverted so what? it's not bad to be a bit more quiet than others. it could even be good. for example telling others secrets that aren't supposed to spread, there are plenty of these situations. so, be who you are!

„ life is too short to wear boring clothes go get dressed! "

what you wear is really important, it shows others who you are. if you wear lazy clothes all the time, what would people think of you? obviously that you're a lazy or irresponsible person (don't take it too harsh but i think you get what i mean). so i'm not saying you gotta wear a dior dress that costs $1,000 dollars like every day. as long as you wear presentable clothes for school or your job interview it's alright! and sometimes we all just want to wear something comfortable but i mean it's better to wear „messy" clothes at home instead of wearing that at school. pretty outfits are comfortable too so i think that won't be the issue, love. 

„ does it even matter if someone doesn't like you? there are BILLIONS of people in this world. stop giving so much power to one person and allowing them to hurt you. at the end of the day, who are they to you? a nobody, and it will always stay like that. "

i've got nothing to say to this, i think we can all relate to it. 

„ you are getting distracted again. you got dreams to chase. not people to impress. wake up. "

you want that job but others say it's „not good enough for you" or a „bad job"? so what? is it their life? no, of course not. just because others say „oh, this is good and this is bad" that doesn't mean you have to believe that and do what others say. girl, it's your life, your dream and you're the main characters. if the thought of that job, that kind of lifestyle or that country is your dream, why not make it come true? also, if this is really about a job there's no „bad" job. every job in the world is important. 

no one could choose your future if they're not you. so start working towards your dreams because the ones who love you will support you no matter what path you will choose <3.

„ pick your struggle. studying is hard but having bad grades is also hard, having no money is hard but working to earn money is also hard. The struggle you pick will decide your future so choose wisely!!! " 

straight to the point guys. 

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that's it for this chapter! i hope you liked it<3 also:

 ──.# 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐩𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐨𝐨 𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐠, 𝐭𝐨𝐨 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐫𝐭 𝐨𝐫 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐢𝐭 𝐚𝐥𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭?

just so that i know hehe >.< 

𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘢 𝘯𝘪𝘤𝘦 𝘸𝘦𝘦𝘬𝘦𝘯𝘥, 𝘪 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘭𝘭  .ᐟ

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