Hey guys this is the admin, Luis. I am dedicating this chapter to Dara I am in no way intending to imply her sexuality she is just going through hard times and I thought inspirational is the way to go so this is my story.
People like me struggle with our sexuality. People say we are just curios or it is a phase but you must understand that this is us. We might not be "normal" but NO ONE IS. It was hard coming out to my family. So hard that I didn't for a while after I started realizing myself. I waited so long that they found out. I'm not gonna tell you why but boy, was that horrendous. but I was shocked. my stepdad accepted me immediately. he said he loved me no matter what. But my mother couldn't grasp that so she called my father and me him and his wife had an "intervention" I tried to change to no avail. No God nor image could change who or what I knew I was. for two years I was back in the closet. This time I came out and told my mom. seeing her cry broke me. A week later after long awkward encounters she hugged me saying that I was a good child and even though I liked other males, she wanted me to be happy. and after that we were closer. She was happy when she found out I planned on adopting children anyways. My mom is now pro-gay pride and all that, not just for me, but my brother has two behavioral therapists, both of them and their supervisor who visits are all lesbian (not with each other) two of which are married.
My father on the other hand was harder. He is intolerant of almost everyone so it took me an extra year, a few months ago at the beginning of the summer of 2015, and he basically told me I was going to hell if I stayed like this over the phone after he dropped me off like ten minutes after I told him because he and his wife are devout christians. I told him to f*** off which was the first time he ever heard me curse. but eventually they cooled off. Still not accepting they just ignore it. which is fine by me. Well anyways that is my story. It probably would've been a lot happier if I had accepted who I was and wasn't scared to tell my parents. if you people who are struggling to come out to your christian parents use this line from the bible 1 timothy 5:8 "But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel." for all the other religions. just say that scientifically there are non-hetero animals in nature. There are fish that can change their gender, there are fish that are dual-gendered and there are animals that attract to the same sex and are support for the species they are in. hope that helped to all of you
