Read this it literally sucks

The Jar

"Think of your life as an open jar needing a lid, and all your possible choices in life: relationships, money, jobs, as a basket of mismatched lids.
You try to find your perfect fit, and rarely get it on the first try. Then when you think its all worked out, and has been going smoothly for a while, your cross threaded lid pops off. But you can still put it back together."