When some one says they want to die you don't yell at them
You don't have the right to tell them scone they have a boy friend or a best friend or a good family that they aren't allowed to do it
You don't tell them that it's a phase they are young or old or in a mood you don't know that
If they have a nice family and everything looks good in their life you don't know what happned in the shadows
Or at night when their minds wander
Or when the nightmares run wild
They lost control of their demons and nights the cage they once kept the fears in is broken
The flood gates that held the tears is smashed
The key to the cage their emotions were locked in is lost
It's not your job to say if they have the privavlege to die! It's no ones if they want to die you don't say "you aren't even depressed" they obviously are they obviously hid it so well that even you don't know that they are telling you this and you say that makes you a horrible person.
If you say "you have a good home life" it means nothing good parents can't stop the nightmares are the thoughts or the cruel words of others or the looks thrown your way
When they say they want to die you can't take away their ability to do so with out making them want to do much more
You can't say they don't deserve to or they are with out ability to do so because they are they can hurt or kill them selves any second and the reason they had held on so long isn't looking that important any more
Don't try to take away their ability to kill them selves because they will always have that
You have to convince them I know it's harder and I know it's hard to deal with some one suicidal but would you rather them die?
Maybe a good feels night could help them
Or a therapist
Or a friend
A parent
A friend to yell at them about t
A slap
A cry
They need something yelling convincing talking and crying isn't taking away that ability of them to hurt them selves it's making the want of doing it that once felt like a rock in their stomachs to feel like a grain of sand
To not even notice it only a memory
Trying to take something away from them is forcing and maybe in some cases it works but in the long run you can stop them from doing anything you can only convince
