i hope jongin knows he's a strong man, and that he can and will overcome any hardship life throws at him. i may not be religious, but i heard God does not give you situations that you cannot handle. i wish the best for his family and that they will do well. my deepest condolences. 
                              my sweet boy, we're here for you. 
                                      
                                          
                                   
                                              
                                           
                                               
                                                  