Ask yourself these types of questions:
• Do you want to date them?
• Do you want to have sex with them?
• Do you want to kiss them and hold their hand?
• Can you imagine yourself/do you want to be with them in a romantic way?
(if yes for these, then it's a crush)
OR
• Do you just want to hang out with them?
• Do you like the thought of just being their friend?
• Would you feel uncomfortable if they were to confess their love for you?
(if yes for these, it's a squish)
It is important to note, that a squish can involve the following things:
• You think they look nice.
• You get butterflies around them.
• You can get a little jealous when they hang out with other people.
• You feel like they just get you.
• You want to be with them just about all the time.
• You feel a bit obsessive
I have included this because many aromantics do not realise they are aromantics because they mistake their squishes for crushes.
ESTÁS LEYENDO
The Aromantic and Asexual Starter Kit
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