hi! this chapter is pretty important. it's about the fetishization (isthataword?) of gay men. it's been extremely normalized and it's really gross. and i think it needs to be talked about.
a very normalized example of fetishizing gay men are females who enjoy/are aroused by imagining two or more guys loving eachother or/and by watching/reading yaoi or/and bl
so if you are a female who enjoys yaoi you are disgusting 😃. stop fetishizing my sexuality. it is not for your pleasure or entertainment.
if you don't think this is a problem, you are a part of the problem. i have to deal with people fetishizing my sexuality and even fetishizing my personal relationships between me and another boy. it's really gross and annoying and it makes me sick.
here is an example of this.
these are just a few of many comments like these that were in the comments section of a tik tok. the video was literally just clips of different mlm couples in public who were holding hands and maybe kissing (like barely a little kiss).
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there were a lot more comments like these and it was gross. they are literally just gay couples showing affection because it's their relationship. they don't kiss and hold hands so that girls will compare real life people in a real life relationship can be compared to gay porn that they watched or read.
it's gross that they even commented about 'who tops/bottoms'. holding hands in public isn't even sexual. stop sexualizing and fetishizing gay men. especially real people.
okay that's it for this chapter. i tried to make it short. i think this is just a big issue that being more and more normalized and should be talked about.
