@shiverfeather I'm sorta in the same boat. I have a romantic sub-plot to my story, too. My personal opinion (for what that's worth) is that since it is a subplot (i.e. the main plot of the story isn't specifically about how the main characters fall in love, with a romantic relationship being the end goal of the story) I think you'll be fine. Love connections between people are such a fundamental part of the human condition that I think stories in general would suffer if there wasn't some kind of romantic element to them. Without at least a little of that tension, I think the characters would risk losing their humanity, so to speak. Hope this helps.
Also, I'm willing to help out with the community, too. :)