Tamaki Amajiki x reader

Questions

first: i think why this fic updated so slow and was so hard to write is because 1, i literally had no plot planned and 2, i have no idea how the UA school system works, so I'm curious if I could rewrite this as an au? You can leave au suggestions if you want here and I'll consider them but school is boring so ngl I'm probably not going to just do a normal school

second: if i rewright this, which its so cringy to me that it haunts my dreams so i probably will at this point, should i do a gender neutral character?

third: im an old man (/j) and i dont keep up with memes anymore so, sorry to dissappint but if this is being rewritten it wont have as many memes