You always think (or sometimes might think) confident people are not fearful. They are less scared ; of course but scared. Its just that they are good at hiding their fear. What you should do is take part in social activities. Interact. Show people you have got something. Deal with fear. Take deep breaths. Even if you are scared,go for it. Ask yourself :
What is the worst that can happen?
That's it. You will know you were being a baboon for no reason.
Be patient with yourself. Sometimes you go backwards to go forwards. Gaining self-confidence does not happen overnight. You might try something new and not meet your goal. If possible, see what lessons are there. Not meeting your goal the first time around is an opportunity to learn more about yourself. Self-confidence needs to be nurtured and grown, a bit at a time.
No one is perfect and nothing can be done perfectly. So be happy and be gentle and kind. You'll notice the change. Keep and open mind and do not be afraid of stating your opinion. If others laugh at you, just ignore them! Does it matter what they think about you unless they are some sort of idiotic VIP'S whom you are supposed to keep happy?
Recognize your insecurities and eliminate them away!
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Be happy!!!
- Jennifer (Jenny)
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How To Build Self Confidence
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