How can she/he do that?
He/she was supposed to do this instead?
Who is dumb enough to do that?
What a lame choice?
Yes we all got smarter when it's not our problem.
Everyone has a threshold of handling the problem, the magnitude to which the thing is heavy, tiresome and huge to them.
It may look small to you but for him/her was insanely impossible, it may look stupid to you but for him/her was the wiser choice he/she ever made.
It doesn't hurt to be kind, just help, guide, advice a person without making them feel dumb.
Kind people taken advantage of but let kindness be your nature and destroying is theirs.
The world need more kind/good people than we think.
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Adios
