LOVE? OR INFATUATION?
masarap talaga ang feeling ng IN LOVE... lahat naman tayo naiinlove.
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pero marami sa atin ang INFATUATED lang, pero MAG-KA-I-BA sila, suriin mo ang nararamdaman mo.
ang INFATUATION ay matinding paghanga.
it is an instant desire..
matindi ang iyong pagnanais na makasama ang isang tao.
samantala, ang PAG-IBIG ay tila nag-aalab na pagkakaibigan.
ika nga, it takes root and grows one day at a time...
kusa itong sumisibol.
hindi ito padalos-dalos o pabigla-bigla...
kapag ikaw ay INFATUATED, may feeling ka of insecurity.
hindi ka mapalagay,
oo nga at excited ka ngunit hindi ka totoong masaya sometimes, you doubt him/her.
sometimes you always ask but seems to find no answer.
may mga bagay din tungkol sa kanya na gusto mong malaman at pag hindi mo ito magustuhan,
like hindi mo pala gusto yung taste of clothes niya,
you'd feel very disappointed.
it might shatter the image you've built about him/her.
LOVE, on the other hand, understands.
it knows that your loved one has imperfections. ito ang totoong pag-ibig...
binibigyan ka nito ng kalakasan,
you even feel his/her presence kahit na malayo siya. distance is not a hindrance for your love not to grow. you're sure he/she is with you in spirit of course, you want him/her near.
but near or far, you know he/she loves you as much as you love him/her.
you can wait for him/her, no matter what.
when you're INFATUATED,
you tend to say that you want to get married as soon as time possible.
masasabi mo na, "I can't afford to lose you!"
samantala, when you're IN LOVE,
you don't rush into anything...
you're patient.
you don't panic.
you plan your future carefully.
INFATUATION is smart with sexual excitement. you want constant intimacy with him/her.
samantala, LOVE is a maturation of friendship, it is always best to be friends first before becoming lovers.
pag INFATUATED ka,
iniisip mo na baka nagiging unfaithful na siya sa'yo.
LOVE is trusting the other person.
you know you can trust him/her. and by feeling this way, he/she even becomes more trustworthy.
dahil INFATUATED ka,
maaari kang makagawa ng mga bagay
na maaari mong mapagsisisihan in the end.
but with LOVE, you are sure of your every move, maginhawa ang iyong pakiramdam...
you function well.
nagiging mas mabuti kang tao pag alam mo na pag-ibig nga ang iyong nararamdaman...
think about it...think about the difference between
LOVE and INFATUATION...
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Is this LOVE or just INFATUATION?
magkaiba pala yun noh? haha. Love ba, o infatuation lang yang nararamdaman niyo? :) feeling ko tuloy Fats lang tong akin :)
