The first day into talking we had a fight. That should have been the first red sign. I was at work while he & one of our mutual friends were hanging out. We were fighting about sexual stuff & having different opinions on the matter & for some reason he blocked me on social media & he stopped texting me. I texted our friend he was hanging out with saying "thanks for saying he would treat me good" because he was being immature. I guess my friend said something to him because after awhile he texted me apologizing thinking that we were playing a game. He came to my house & surprised me with flowers & candy to make up for it. Looking back on it now he would always buy me things to make up for his mistakes. Anyways, I forgave him thinking it was silly to even have been mad in the first place. We talked on & off for about two months. We had a lot of fights & arguments throughout this time span, I can only remember three though. The first one I've already mentioned & then this time I was about to go to bed because I had work in the morning & he texted me telling me he was going to do cocaine. I have never done drugs before & I don't want to date someone who does do them. Not against the person just is a personal thing. I got mad & ended it completely because he knew this about me before we even started dating. He said he wouldn't do it since I was against it but I didn't care because he considered it. The next day my friends were texting me while I was at work saying he called them last night crying & they didn't know what to do. I texted him asking him to leave my friends alone & to know that I was being serious about us being done. When I got off work I was walking to my car & he was right there with flowers asking me to forgive him. I stupidly did. The last argument was our most serious at this time. We were off at the time but we're still trying to save our friendship. We had plans to hang out but he ditched me for our mutual girl friend & told me he wasn't ready to face me yet. He then told our friend that he had drunk sex with some girl in his dorm at college but didn't want to tell me because he thought he still had a chance to date me & thought if I found out I would be over him. Him hiding things from me to benefit him bothered me so we stopped communication for a month after that.
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Abused in Silence
Non-FictionThis story is based on my true events of my abusive relationship. I am wanting to get my story out there so that people know the early signs that they are dating an abuser. I am tired of society romanticizing domestic violence & emotional abuse.
