Flirting 101

Chapter 3

How to flirt with someone in the friend way?

As you’ve read in the introduction, you really need to make a girl wonder
about your intention and rouse her curiosity if you want to make her like
you back.
Here are ten tips on how to flirt with a girl that can definitely help you
leave an impression on her and make her like you at the same time. You don’t
have to go out with guns blazing, play it subtle to start with and work your
flirting around the way she reciprocates to your moves.

#1 Be the best man you can be
You can’t cheat your way through this step. The world is full of great guys 
who want to be with the best women they can find. If you want the girl you like,
you need to be worth her effort. Even before you flirt with her, you need to 
make a real man out of yourself. Be the man who can attract attention from women
and you’ll realize that wooing the best girls around you is way easier than you 
can imagine.

#2 Compliment her the right way
Is she looking particularly good today, or has she done something with her hair? 
If you like a girl, odds are, you’ll notice these signs almost immediately. If you 
like something about her, compliment her about it, be it her dress or her hair.
But if you want to tread into the dating ground and make her remember your compliment,
you need to use your words well. Don’t say the obvious statement when you’re trying 
to compliment her. Try to get memorable and personal with your compliments without
crossing the line. Here are two ways of complimenting the same thing.
Nice tee shirt! – Gosh, you look so beautiful.
Nice perfume – You smell so good today…
You can always compliment a girl about her tee shirt or her perfume directly, but by
getting personal with it, you’re creating a memory for her. The next time she uses
that perfume, she’s going to remember what you said. And that’s the first step to
paving your way into her heart.
Saying “your skin is so soft… does it feel the same way all over?” or “nice tee shirt… 
I love the way it fits your body” may seem personal, but it also borders on creepy.
Save these sexual compliments for later, when she wants to hear them. 

#3 Get some alone time with her
Flirting is best indulged in when it’s just the both of you. You can show off your 
flirting skills around a group of girls and guys, but you won’t be able to create an 
impression on the girl you like, because she’ll never think it’s special. After all
feel like you’re treating her in a special manner?
Indulge in a bit of humorous flirting when there are people around, but save all your
special compliments and “you make my day” lines when it’s just the both of you. When 
you’re flirting with a girl, make her feel more special than anyone else, and she’ll
think about your conversation a lot longer.

#4 Girls like a funny bone
A sense of humor is a great quality to have for a conversation. If you don’t think 
you’re a funny or witty guy, don’t fret. Just grin for starters. Girls love a guy with 
whom they can have a fun time. You don’t need to memorize a thousand one liners to seem 
funny. Just remember an incident you came across or talk about the things around you.
If you want to get a sense of humor, start to see the lighter side in everything you 
do. Enjoy your life and always stay positive and cheerful. A good sense of humor always
accompanies a guy who can see the bright side of everything, and shares his funny 
thoughts with the people around him.

#5 Tease her now and then
While flirting may seem like a lot of work, it’s all about the little details that matter.
Flirting isn’t just about mouthing a few lines laced with sexuality. It’s the way you 
behave around each other, be it having a laugh or indulging in a bit of touchy feely
flirting.
If you can have a fun conversation with her, you’re already flirting! It’s as simple as 
that. But to push the friendly banter into dating grounds, you need to tease her and pull
her leg now and then, when she slips or does something funny.

#6 Play with dirty conversations
The first five steps are perfect for creating a flirty environment for both of you. It’s
just friendly and casual. But once you get past that, both of you would be close enough
to take the kiddie flirting to the next step.
Whenever you get some alone time or are speaking to her on the phone, learn to mix your
conversations. By now, both of you would have warmed up to flirting with each other, so
you don’t really have to be worried about crossing the line now and then. Pass a few sexual
remarks or ask a few questions that border on personal space every now and then. Even if
she tells you to shut it in jest, you’ll still be making a great impression.

#7 Get touchy feely
No flirting is ever complete without a few sexy touches now and then. Every now and then,
try to find an excuse to touch her, be it her new earrings, her strand of hair that’s
caught in the wind, or while crossing a busy street. And each time you touch her, let 
your hands linger just a bit longer than required. She’ll sense your hand lingering and 
she’ll love it, just as long as you’ve been working your flirty magic on her.

#8 Ask her out often
Once in a while, when you’re flirting with her, ask her out to a movie or lunch the next 
day. The best time to pop this question would be when you’re just about to say goodbye,
or when you’re text flirting. You don’t have to sound serious about it at all. By ending
the conversation abruptly, you’ll make her wonder if you genuinely asked her out or if you 
were just joking. And as always, these little details rouse curiosity and excitement.
The next day, you can remind her about your date, and again don’t sound too serious about 
it. If she just laughs about it, laugh along and talk about something else. She may be unsure
if you’re joking or serious, or she may not be willing to take the plunge just yet.
If she actually responds in your favor and accepts, woo hoo! But if she declines, laugh it 
off as a joke. But make a mental note to work harder on impressing her while flirting with her.

#9 Make those late night calls
The night has a funny way of awakening our sexuality. Any two friends who indulge in long 
conversations with each other at this bewitching hour can assure you of this one. If you want 
to know how to flirt with a girl and make her like you, start calling her up or texting her 
late into the night and have your flirty conversations.
The relaxed late night conversations will soon evolve into a mutual attraction that will 
easily cross the boundaries of friendship in no time, just as long as you use these flirty
conversation tips. 

#10 Let her see you as a dating potential
You may have created an attraction and a strong sexual chemistry between both of you, but 
you’re not done just yet. She may enjoy your conversations and secretly like you already,
but to flirt with a girl and make her want to go out with you, you need to let her see you 
as a dating potential.
During a few conversations with her, drop a few hints that you’re looking out for a 
girlfriend or are interested in going out with someone. If she’s single or in a bad relationship,
she’ll involuntarily think about both of you together, especially if it’s one of those late 
night calls. 
Once you know how to flirt with a girl the right way by playing it safe and taking one little 
step beyond friendship each time, you’ll see that flirting with any girl you like doesn’t always
have to be a game of chance and hope. Use these subtle flirting tips and flirt with any girl
you want the friend way!
Now that you know how to flirt with a girl the friend way and make her like you, do you want 
to take it a step further into going out with each other? Find out how to date a friend here.