Techniques on how to flirt with a woman.
Technique #1: The Soft Stare. (Setting The Stage)
Since the eyes can generally convey a lot of different feelings, you should put
them to use whenever you flirt with girls because girls are actually hardwired
by their feelings. Ideally, you should stare at a girl deeply whenever you talk
to her while maintaining a calm and relaxed expression on your face. This will
not just make her feel more comfortable in your presence, but it will instantly
make her feel closer to you, as well.
Technique #2: Lightning Emotional Connection. (Use Hypnosis)
Many guys will debate me on this (yes, even members of the SIBG lair!), but I recommend immediately jumping into building emotional connections rather early in the interaction (immediately after Setting The Stage above). After the initial
attraction stage, you will need to build attraction – and this can only be done if she is affected emotionally.
Technique #3: The Sensual Look.
Once a girl feels more comfortable around you, you can give her a mischievous look that will tell you that you think about doing naughty things with her or a coy look that will make her think that you have a dirty secret that she would love to know. You can bite your lip every now and then, too; this move happens to make girls think about sexual things without them meaning to. Of course, this will be more effective once you have built some emotional connection with her – otherwise you’ll just look like a creep, or worse, a potential molester minus the rapist glasses and brown trench coat. Do yourself a favor and use fractionation. Really. Do it.
Technique #4: The Surprise Wink.
Whenever you pass by the girl that you are eyeing, wink at her after you lock eyes. Since she won’t expect it, it will surprise her a bit yet give her the clear and distinct message that you are flirting with her. Naturally, you shouldn’t overdo it with the winking, though. If you wink at her too much,
she might just get used to it and not get affected by your winks anymore. If winking is out of the question, then smile at her instead. This will show her that you are both friendly and approachable.
Technique #5: The Playful Bump.
Playful actions, like bumping a girl on her side, will definitely make her smile. As a
bonus, it will create sexual tension between the two of you, too. Make sure you don’t do
this to a complete stranger, though; that might just make things awkward. Again, revisit
Tip #2 above and create that emotional bond first.
Technique #6: The Understatement.
While complimenting a girl is something that a lot of guys do, it is actually something
that I ask my SIBG mentees to stay away from. At the very least, you should understate your
compliments as much as possible.
Believe it or not, telling a girl that you like her through compliments will do nothing but
the break the tension. So, instead of telling a girl how gorgeous she looks, try telling her
that she isn’t the ugliest girl that you have ever met in your life. This will add a bit of
humor in the mix, yet will still tell her that you think she is beautiful. #seewhatididthere 😉
Technique #7: The Double Negative.
Here’s a patented SIBG flirting technique. Another fun and effective way to compliment a girl
or tell her that you like her without boosting up her ego too much and breaking the flirty
tension is by using double negatives such as, “I don’t not think you’re beautiful”.
This statement will not just confuse her to death and make her think about you all day long,
but it is also a playful way to tell her how you feel.
If you combine a double negative with an understated compliment (see Tip #5 above), then you
will definitely hit gold. Try saying something like “I don’t hate you at all” or “I don’t not
like you a little bit“. That is sure to get her mind reeling.
Technique #8: The Sensual Tease.
Now if you have used all the first seven techniques above, you’ll find that she will display
some indicators of interest, and she will be starting to flirt back at you.
Technique #9: The Moniker.
This doesn’t mean that you should be rude or anything, but you can give her a cute nickname
that pertains to an inside joke or something special that you noticed about her.
Call her goofy for the way that she dances, call her a geek for liking Star Wars so much or
call her a brat for being spoiled by her parents, for example. Make your teasing fun and it
will easily be seen as flirting instead of rudeness.
Technique #10: The Mind Hacker. (Advanced Technique)
Most guys would not consider using hypnosis or covert psychology to flirt with women, but as
hardcore seducers, we do. Remember that all you want to do when you flirt is to develop a deep
emotional rapport with a woman so that you can continue to build attraction on top of the
connection. The best way to do this is to use fractionation – a hypnosis and covert psychology
technique which is reputed to be able to make a woman fall in love in ten minutes flat.
We here at the Baltimore Seduction Lair have been teaching and using fractionation as part of
our “core” curricula, and for good reason – it works. We have, unfortunately, also seen the dark
side of this technique; when misused, it can cause a woman to feel emotionally DEPENDENT on you.
Believe me, you don’t want a stalker following you everywhere you go, no matter how hot she is. :)
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