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♡ Confidence For Angels ♡

Hello bbies! 💕 I'm so delighted that you guys liked my new chapter! Your comments are super sweet as well as your suggestions. 🦢Speaking of suggestions, some one {i'm not sure if they want to me shout them out or not}wanted to me to do a chapter on confidence. Being confident is important for little angel bbies as yourself. Let's start

First, of let's learn what confidence is;

♡ Confidence: {noun} a feeling of trust in your own abilities, qualities, and judgment.
{ example; "She built up her confidence enough to ask out her crush!" } 🕊

Now we know what confidence is, we can get to being confident in our selfs!

♡ Appearance; Personally, for me to feel confident I try to make myself look good in my own eyes. Do not worry about anyone else's opinion, yours it the only one that matters! Wear what makes you feel good, dress how you'd like to dress. If it makes you feel pretty, powerful, independent, unique, etc. it's giving you confidence! As well as makeup, I believe their is no such thing as too little or too much makeup. Do your makeup how you want or don't wear any at all. It's all about what makes you feel good, no one else. 🧸

♡ Judgment: I have struggled with this before but I don't anymore! Friends, parents, and even yourself can change your judgement about something. For example; You think it's person at school is cool and you want to become their friend, you tell your friends, and they completely shoot down the concept and tell you they are weird. If your confident enough to not get suede by there judgment your opinion shouldn't change about that person. It can be hard, maybe you don't want to lose them or you want them to include you, whatever your reason is, don't let it get to you. You are your own person with your own opinions and attitude. If they get mad at you for just being honest and finding someone they don't like interesting, they aren't worth your time. Same with parents. As well as yourself, you think they are cool but you keep telling your self that your friends/parents/anyone is going to dislike you for it. Like who you like and don't let anyone change your opinions about anyone or anything. 🎀

♡ Attitude: Confidence is often shown it attitude and how you hold yourself out in the world. Your attitude should be forward, not hiding in the back. It should be yourself, not scared. Of course, you can still be a confident introvert. But if you put yourself out there, I promise life will be more colorful than ever! 🍒

♡ Intelligence: If your wondering what i mean by this, I mean being able to do your work or say something out loud with out being scared or stuttering. Be proud, if you really believe it say it out loud! Your smart, intelligent, and so much more. Say what you mean and mean it! I know it's not that simple but if you try, you can only get better! ☁️

That's all for this chapter! Of course, I'm not the "Confidence Master, but I believe this chapter could some of you! I hope you liked it, if you did feel free to vote if you'd like. If you have any suggestions, be sure to comment or even DM me. 🍰

With love,
~ 𝓑